I have decided to get closure! I threw out his stuff that he left at my house (i was holding onto them with hope) but just suddenly decided to ditch them. I know i deserve a man not a boy!!! I sent him a text message telling him exactly what I think of him (maybe not everything) but it was enough. And I read on this website "how to deal with getting dumped" that i should start writing a list of things that weren't that great about him. Only got 3 things so far but apparently it will grow...wait just thought of a 4th one lol.