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I LOVE YOU......GOODBYE

In a course of love, not all promises last forever and not all partner remains together. There are times that we met and fall to someone only to found out in the end that we are not meant to be and we need to let go. It doesn't mean that we didn't love the person anymore or we stop to care about them; we bid adieu to the relationship mainly because there are some external reason that could affect us if we keep holding on it. Though the consequences of our choice became too difficult on our part and yet we sacrifice our own happiness but still...we let love fly where it truly  belong.

When we felt true love at the wrong person it is not merely our fault. It so happen that we feel the magic and spark in our heart temporarily but someway or another we have to give it away. Oftentimes, we are confused if we need to fight our feelings or must put an end to the existing mutuality. And if choosing right means letting go, then take a stand for what is right. We know it's very hard to let go if we really love someone becoz we are afraid our heart been broken and afraid to face the world alone or embrace the loneliness after the painful heartbreak but having the effort to let go before it hurt us even more is the best thing to do. Love can always be present but we can't deny the fact that we can't loved the person who already belong to someone else. If we could only turn back times when both are free, when there is no commitment, when we met fist and loved but it is just a fallacy that we can't make it to reality. Just admit it, LOVE HAS ITS OWN TIME,SEASON AND REASON. We can't ask love to stay fro us to be happy, we can only cherish the moment and be grateful that once in a while it become ours.

We may utter painful word like "goodbye". No emotion can ever compare the pain of hearing this word. For sure, hurt will dominated us. Afterall, it is part of letting go. We believe there's no easy way out. Pain will lingers, tears will definitely flow in our eyes and our heart might broken. No more sweetest nights and we may feel no light in our life. We can only reminisce the best of yesterday. We can smile for sometimes but we can't pretend the hurt feelings inside. We can show that we're ok but we can't hide the pain that keep us dying.

In love, it's either we keep on hold to fight or give up the battle. We may not be sure for the results but when we realize that we are not meant for each other, we have to learn how to let go....and accept as it is...it doesn't mean we are weak but we are only proving that we are brave enough to move on when something went wrong. Beside, life should not stop because of heartbreak unfolds today. In some way or another, God on His time will give way to meet us the RIGHT PERSON at the RIGHT TIME, RIGHT PLACE with a RIGHT LOVE.......

2009-04-04

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    • ....there are some situation where we question the humility of one's heart to wait, understand and accept what love can offer. Sometimes, confusion arises when we felt the strongest feeling but mistakenly given to a wrong person. Moreover, the same thing happens when we share love to the right person. Of course, it is the most happiest day of our lives. But if we are on parameter where we felt love and find it on the person whom can't share the same love like what you can give, it's hard right? This is where waiting, moving on and letting go steps in the process. For this kind of scenario, only ourself knows where and how to start the process. A heart who believe that right love will come never fails to trust, wait and enjoy whatever moments it may have.....
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      • ....there are some situation where we question the humility of one's heart to wait, understand and accept what love can offer. Sometimes, confusion arises when we felt the strongest feeling but mistakenly given to a wrong person. Moreover, the same thing happens when we share love to the right person. Of course, it is the most happiest day of our lives. But if we are on parameter where we felt love and find it on the person whom can't share the same love like what you can give, it's hard right? This is where waiting, moving on and letting go steps in the process. For this kind of scenario, only ourself knows where and how to start the process. A heart who believe that right love will come never fails to trust, wait and enjoy whatever moments it may have.....
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        • nice post...I agree saying goodbye is the saddest thing to do...but life has no rewind we must think hundred times before we decide...
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