Jesus came to earth as a man. Recalling that Jesus himself was a man you should not be so down on all men because you have had a bad experience...as many men have had bad experiences with women too who promised so much and were so disappointing. There are good and bad examples of both sexes and then there is this reality: the one you love does not always love you the same. However, life is full of surprises and the tables do turn sometimes and on rare occasions it is possible that love is truly shared. Don't feel singled out... everyone who has ever dared to love has had their heart broken many times. It does not make love any more impossible to find or any less precious...it only tests faith. No reason to be filled with hate or rage as those don't have anything to do with love or even lost love. If you can find love even for the one who let you down....then you'll be closer to understanding the message that Jesus left in his living example. Love that is true does not count ills or seek revenge and it is not bitter.