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hey my name is kelsey, I have a bit of a situation  and i need some advise.
There is guy named andrew that i met about 2 years ago, well i always knew him cause hes lived in my hometown my whole life, hes a bit older then me and he goes to the same bar every weekend that i go to here in town, 2 years ago i started getting attracted to him, and i sort of felt the same thing back because he would alway come home with me after the bar, hes not much of a talker hes kinda of shy so i would just ask him if he was walking home, we would walk up the hill and he would just come home with me. it happened several times for a while and then it just stopped, I think mainly because i gave up trying ,because i was too in to him to just keep it at that, but i never told him how i felt because I wasnt sure how he felt or if he wanted anything more so i sort of gave up. I am good friends with one of his friends and lately i asked him to find out what andrew thinks of me, so possibly i could break the ice if he felt the same way. Its akward everytime we are around each other, its not just me i can feel back from him as well, its really hard to have a conversation with him,  he always watches me whenever im around him, i see out of the cornor of my eye and so do my friends. But why is this guy not doing anything about it. To me i look at it like this If someone wants a one night stand, all it would be is a ONE night stand, so why does he continously keep coming home with me , after 2 years of not bothering with me at all, ever since i said something to his freind hes been approaching me to walk home with him in the last couple of weeks, i dont know if thats his way of telling me something, or not. I asked my friend about what he found out, and he told me hes not sure because andrew doesnt say much. So im in a rut, i dont know if this guy really likes me, or is just comfortable coming home and sleeping with me on a number of a occasions. its frustrating cause i really wanna say something. but im afraid if i do, and he rejects me then i guess i just dont have any of it anymore,  and im not really sure if i want any of it to end completely or not, even if the feelings not mutual. Please help me haha

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    • if you want to really be with with him, be honest with him. ****blah, blah,blah*** if he rejects you, it means either A- hes not worth the time or B)- you can do a hell of alot better C- hes just as scared as you are take it from me, more commonly they are scared or not worth the time
      • take a chance and let him know your feelings and see what happens! we always remember the things we could have done are should have done do not let this be one of those! there is nothing to lose but a few minutes of time here and a possible life time knowing you tried are how good it is to have given it a chance! in this life if you do not give things a try then they stay the same!
        • Maybe he is scared of expressing of himself being a shy. Its better you talk to him regarding the situation and you need to step forward and let him know about your feelings. If he finds it comfortable with him to be happy sharing his views/feeling/intention, you both can move forward otherwise you both can take your own ways. regards.
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