Love is Divine and show it not to a swine!

Deep love sweetens the dreams in sleep!

Affection can cure the worst infection!

Logic of love can do a miraculous magic!

Love is the only tool that can heal to cool!

If you love, you can feel the God-above!

Love at first sight may lose later might!

Believe not in eyes as they may hide heart's lies!

Both body and mind must be loved, only then bliss is allowed

Love may be a feather in cap or become a deadly trap!

M V Venkataraman

When love is pure

Success is sure

Love is a cure

It helps endure

If there is no care

By being so fair

Like the holy Air

How can we bear?

When love is true

It will then rescue

Via a positive view

It makes hope new

If you don't love one

Let telling be done

It will be a brief burden

Or tears under the Sun

If your love is false

For you if one falls

His heart, it mauls

Due to untrue calls

Use not love to cheat

It may be now sweet

Soon, will come defeat

Let truth and love meet!

M V Venkataraman

When love is strong, partner will come along!

When love is weak, for you, none will seek!

If you give a forceful chase, ahead are sad days!

If you touch her leg and beg, that love is no big!

If sharing the bed is the need, that relation will bleed!

That love not ending in marriage is just a mirage!

If you marry due to lust, be prepared to face the worst!

Mutual love's absence teaches bitter lessons!

Marrying for formality will create sorrow for eternity!

Marrying after love is blessed by the Lord-above!

M V Venkataraman

First attempt at writing a song. Its a message to the girl who /if will come next .

The way you have a best friend, I want us to be,

Our families will be routing for us like we are a home team 

Most likely to say, "yes" and settle down. 

Listen and don't frown.

Make a Family and grow some Plants around 

But we can't stop hearing all those strange world sounds

And livin' our real lives is what we are really bound. 

This will sound fair

I know that you are scared and nervous for all people and lights

I don't blame you for your immediate stress up and literally loss of sight

At the same time your bags are packed up and you are ready to go 

But I just need  you to know 

I promise to love you more than I do my Favorite Football Club,

Love you more than the chilled beer at the pub,

Love you more than any other thing I have it around. 

How does that sound ?

Will Love you more than I do to my bed

or Mark Walberg does to TED 

More than you love Beer when you aren't 21 yet

I love you more than I do anything around

Will love you more than I do my hometown.

I want you to do. 

But Promise you will stay till the end of the time

And tell me each day I am yours and You are mine. 

Baby , Cuz' I can't do this again  

This will be one last and last time

Cuz my head wont stop spinnin' around

I am an old school and can't run away or change like that

My heart still aches and sometimes I still cry lying flat

The Last one was a liar and a cheater

Hang on these words and help me forget 'em

So, I won't you to know

 Love you more than a Chef loves to cook

Love you more than the Guy loves the Girl at the end of the book  

Love you more than any other thing I have it around . 

Will Love you more than I do my hometown . 

 remember writing this in Last December. Dec2019 when I got to know that I will be heading to Europe and will be visiting France, Switzerland, and Italy on a Business trip.   This is just 3 months after I took a call to walk away from a toxic relationship. Milan was so desired to be visited by her, so some lines describing my feelings when I heard that I would be visiting it .....without her.

It's been 3 months since I saw you 

Just Insta feeds here and there

No chance to tell you what I got dear 

The chance to do the things from our bucket list

For you and me which I knew you just can't resist

I know you would get super angry after hearing this

But I am going to Europe in the Jan winter Mist 

Roaming the Tourist shops around the ancient town 

 Drinking Beer and eating Gelato will make you frown 

I know you would die to be here 

So I won't be posting pictures just to be clear

I feel so guilty for not sharing  

But the steps you took and have gone so far away

I am sad but I would like to say 

I will be seeing Milan without you 

Everything there will make me miss you 

Seeing Lovers holding Hands in the alley

To Couple Retreats in the higher Valley 

Your desire to ride through the Euro Rail

Will have to do it and also take the Mountain Trail

If you find out I know you will pray for it to derail

I feel so guilty for not sharing  

But the steps you took and have gone so far away

I am sad but I would like to say 

I will be seeing Milan without you

Why does she act this way? Why does she treat me like this? Why did she say that? Why can’t she be nice? Why? Why? Why?

The short answer is: Because she’s crazy. You’ll makeyourself crazy if you try to find meaning in her meaningless and casually cruel behaviors. Most of us try to understand the world in which we live to varying degrees. It’s human nature to search for meaning, particularly when there’s no ready explanation for certain phenomena.

Its been over good 2 long years , I am trying just to be friends with this girl I love and married but sometimes I think she knows I am trying to hard and is good for a day but then next she behaves like that ultra bitch. How hard it can be to be nice to somebody who is nice to you ?? This is why this article is here.

We go to therapy, we pray, we meditate and we conduct scientific research to try to understand why. I believe a life without meaning isn’t worth living but, sometimes, in certain situations and with certain people, there is no greater meaning to be found other than they just. . . suck.

When your wife or girlfriend treats you badly, you want to understand why. You ask yourself:

• Is she having a bad day?
• Did you do something wrong?
• What can you do differently?
• Maybe she doesn’t realize the way she’s treating you is hurtful and if you tell her she’ll stop?

These are good questions to ask if you’re involved with an emotionally healthy and grounded woman. However, if you’re involved with an emotionally abusive bully/professional victim, aNarcissist a Borderline or another abuse prone personality type, asking the above questions will get you nowhere. In fact, if you try to discuss these matters with her, she’ll probably blame you and become more abusive, which will make you feel more confused and a little nuts.

The bottom line is YOU CAN’T REASON WITH A CRAZY PERSON. Emotionally abusive women want to control you and they do it by making you feel bad. That’s all the “meaning” there is to be found.

Psychology has created diagnostic labels to identify and make sense of the full spectrum of crazy behaviors of emotionally abusive people. Some explanations for their behavior include biological bases, early childhood trauma/abuse or that their behavior is learned.

At best, these explanations are inadequate. At their worst, these explanations give bullies and emotional predators a free pass to treat others like crap, usually without any consequences. She had a tough childhood, so you have to be patient with her. She was abused by a family member, so you have to forgive, tolerate and learn how NOT to trigger her crazy and hurtful side. Give me a break.

I have a tremendous amount of sympathy for children who are actively being abused. However, I’ve zero sympathy for adults with abuse histories who have grown up to abuse other adults, their children and won’t take responsibility for their behaviors because “they have problems.” That “why” just doesn’t fly.

There are lots of men who had troubled childhoods and don’t believe the rules of society apply to them. Many of them end up in jail. Women with similarly bad childhoods and equally bad adult behaviors are generally protected, enabled, and occasionally rewarded by Psychology and the legal system. It’s a double standard.

For example, your wife goes off on a tear, screaming obscenities at you and your children. Instead of saying, “that’s not ok,” you and your kids feel bad about upsetting her and try to figure out how to make her happy—often with the help of a therapist. * This is a separate topic, but if there are child(ren) involved, what are you teaching them about adult relationships? That it’s ok to abuse others to get your rocks off, because you’re upset or to get what you want?

Instead of protecting yourself from the crazy person, the emotional predator, and the bully; you protect her and serve yourself up on a platter. You can try to understand this. You can try to make meaning out of it, but what does it solve? She’s still crazy and hurtful. Do the reasons “why” really matter?

Instead, ask yourself WHY you’re compelled to understand this woman and her crazy behavior. Why are you compelled to stay in this relationship? What does it mean about you if you can’t get this woman to be kind to you? Understand your own reasons for being in this relationship and then decide if this is how you want to spend the rest of your life .

I WISH SHE READS THIS ...

Dear Almighty God,

I thank you for all the events in my life, I experienced fun-filled journeys

Whether made me cry or smile, brought me sadness or happiness

It led me where and what I am today, a life that is not perfect yet blessed

No what ifs, no regrets but a colorful memories to be cherished

I thank you for every people you sent to love and accept me wholeheartedly.

You send them not to see what I cannot do but to see my worth and capability

They help me realize and continue to become a better version of myself.

I am loved  despite of my shortcomings and weaknesses even at my worst. 

I thank you for all the Blessings that I received and about to receive.

Be it small or big things, I learn to be contented and be appreciative.

Everything that I have now is all that I need to be happy and be blissed.

Things that I don’t have does not matter or hinders to my happiness

Love, 

rheibutterfly 🦋

When she is gone, what is the use of dawn ?

Her leaving me has made me my own enemy ?

When her eyes pierce mine, I understand what is Divine !

When her hands I hold, mind thinks not of even gold

When she left me for good, my emotions are now staying dead

When she looked, my heart she booked, but my love, she overlooked

Her refusal has made my body and mind an empty parcel

Away she went and now, my mind,only sorrows severely hunt

As she hasn't remembered me, I want my days to be numbered

The worst punishment is her stopping with me an involvement.

mvvenkataraman