Again because falling in love satisfied you completely ----- you want
same satisfaction to last. No it won't.
Consequence? You might fail to recognize a good relationship because
partner isn't fulfilling the needs you should be fulfilling yourself.
Here's the truth: the right partner will fulfill many of your needs
not all of them . There are just some things your husband can't give
you're self-worth. Your spirituality. Your inner happiness. These are
things you have to work on your own.
I've met lots of people who think they're dissatisfied with their
marriage. In reality, they're dissatisfied with themselves. I've met
of people who think they're bored with their marriages. And they
to the high heavens how boring their husband or wife is ---- when in
they're really bored with life.
Meet your own needs. Find your happiness in God. Find your niche,
calling, your destiny. And then share your joy with your spouse.
MYTH 5 : IF IT'S TRUE LOVE YOU WON"T BE ATTRACTED TO ANYONE ELSE
If you believe in this myth, you panic when you get attracted to
else, questioning the authenticity of your love for your spouse.
One man told me, 'Bo, I love my wife. Or I thought I did. But then I
this woman at work. She has nice make-up. She smells nice. She wears a
pencil-cut skirt. When I go home, my wife is wearing a drab rag. Her
is undone. She smells of vinegar. Gosh I am attracted to this girl at
Being attracted to someone is normal ----- even if you have a happy
marriage. But being attracted doesn't mean falling into adultery.
Every time you think of the other woman, discipline your heart and
'Home, boy, Home!' and escort your heart back to your wife. Because if
feed your attraction with fantasies and constantly think about the
woman, it grows. But if you starve your attraction, it dies a natural
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