The way to a girl's heart and then to her bed is through her laughter. If you can make her smile and have a good time out of bed, then she associates that with how you could make her feel in bed.
There is so much in this world that makes us all feel bad
that when we find something that makes us feel good and laugh, we gravitate towards that source of good times, and laughter, we want to be around those people.
Love is like a flower it needs sunshine fertilizer water and tender loving care to bloom to its potential left alone to fend for itself it will usually end up surrounded by weeds and will rarely bloom.