for me.. BUT is the hardest part, hardest to say, hardest to hear, hardest to swallow in. BUT can be a good thing in life but not in relationships. it could ruin you just like THAT! for me it wasn't easy at all. it was difficult and not so in the mood. i started with.. "but it's just.." and ended with "goodbye". i can only imagine what it would be like to be told "but.." and ended with "i'm sorry". so next time before you say BUT make sure you know completely about what you're about to say and don't go on with the dolly eyes, apologetic face and start crying before you end it. it's good to just not mock around.