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Love Advice!!! HELP PLEASE

Ok, so like, there's this guy I kinda like, though I don't really know why expect for the fact that he gives me attention. (Or did)

so I started flirting with him back, but he was going out with my friend (lets call her B). He flirted with me, but stopped when he figured out I like him.
we went to this club-thing together and somebody snitched and told we kissed when we really didn't, so now B is mad at me. I have no idea what to do, because when she's not around he flirts, very little though, and I sorta flirt back. I've never liked a guy like this much before. And, he likes my other friend (lets call her D). He tells me he doesn't like her and I don't know which one's lying but D says that he flirts with her seriously. I got kinda jealous, and started to do more flirting.   This guy I know said that (and I GUESS they are friends) he really likes me. Though, he doesn't act like it and he also said that the guy I like, likes me more than D. But, he shows her a lot more attention, flirts with other random girls, and sometimes acts like he likes me but when i try to flirt with him, he acts like he doesn't like me.
Sometimes, like on the phone he acts like a total and complete jerk and I just want to slap him. But other times, randomly, he's really sweet and nice and likes me and stuff. I have no idea what to do! Plus I'm jealous that D gets more attention than me (I know that sounds bratty) and I guess, all the other guys that used to like me, and flirt with me went to D and flirted with her. And likes her better even though she's not that pretty and brags and crap.
OMG I NEED HELP SERIOUSLY

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TopHat
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You look young. Don't let these things worry you so much. If a guy is worthy of you he wouldn't flirt with your friends and would do things that show you how caring and nice he is. Have fun, make lots of friends but only let a guy take this much of your mental energy if he shows he is worth it. Eg. if he is respectful, cares about you, not a jerk etc. Just be the best person you can be. Do the right things in life you can and try not to worry about it when people are jerks.
 
Deeds10
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I'd have to agree. You should raise your standard of what you think is an acceptable way of treating you. You may really like him, but if you begin presenting yourself as someone who deserves better, a better guy will come along and you'll forget all about this one guy who flirted with you, sometimes, and was often a jerk. Getting into a relationship with someone who flirts with other people, who isn't completely nice and can't fully say the he likes you isn't going to turn out well and you will most likely get hurt. That's why you have to think long and hard before getting into relationships and make sure it's what's best for you.
 
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Thanks you guys! That helped so much. Now the hard part: forgetting about him! LOL
 


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