ok, i am a nursing student and i only have one year before graduating. i am planning to become a surgeon..and i really want to have a very nice relationship-serious and happy (no fooloing around) with a very nice man. i have standards- no vices, intellegent and with very nice personality. i grew up from a loving family which makes them strict at times but how come that sumtyms i could feel so nice with someone who is very much opposite to what i am describing to? i know what i am getting is just a short excitement so i am not allowing things to go off hand. but then, is it ok to break my own rules and have fun for once??