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my bestfriend NORMA

By artsy
02.05.2007
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	This is based on true events that happened to my friend Norma who made me think about how lucky i am and made me realize that i never thought i would see a person with a sad tale and some how end up with a bittersweet ending...Well it started when we were walking home we lived in south central and we had a lot to deal with its not safe to wander off but we took the same way home from school every day and never thought that something as dangerous as it was could get any worse than the lives we had.There were certian times that can be dangerous to go through we were talking about practice and how we didnt want to go than all you here are gunshots we ducked but when it was over i looked up at norma and started screaming HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Norma got shot in an almost fadal position and no one would help but stare i said call 911 and when she got to the hospital the doctor said"she made it just in time but she was wounded badly and may not be able to walk for paralization."i was only 12yrs old and understood every word the doctor said.i had blood all over my body because i was trying to slow down the blood that was coming out fast.when they let me see her the nurse with me asked"ok,norma blink two times if u feel presure on your foot."she didnt blink and i asked if i can ask the question in a way that i thought would comfort her and sure enough she blinked.i thanked god and made a vow not to let her die and to do all i can to make her better.when she was able to speak again she said out of no exclamation"this isnt the worst thing in my life that has happened."i sat down and began to listen."you see i never told you about my little sister.when she was little she dropped her ball in the street and when i told her a car was coming she didnt listen and the car ran her over and didnt even stop just started speeding up by the time she got to the hospital they said the car hit so deep and started internal bleeding and up till this day i wish it was me.i couldnt forgive myself i blamed me for everything and am still in depression.that ball was everything to her because our mom gave it to her and couldnt be replaced by any other foster mom we had.i live in a foster home and i know you know that but you never knew why.we were taken away fro my mom and dad because our dad raped,and abused us i loved my mom half til death and i miss her soooooo much.one day i had a dream my sister said that it wasnt my fault and if i ever feel this way again forgive myself.my life has up and downs lauren but when i saw my parents i was so happy my dad did the nicest thing that day he gave me the only picture of me and my sister and by the look in his eyes u can tell he felt horrible an stupid.he asked if ill ever forgive him i said yes.you see no matter how hard it is to forgive and how hard it was for me to say yes an yes some people dont deserve it but i did one obstacle that god wants us all to do forgive."

jcfields17

486 days ago Reply

This story is extremely inspirational! Wow.. very deep. And thanks for the comment sweetie. God bless.

artsy

344 days ago Reply

Hey um my best friend norma was shot again and died 11days after my birthday and 3 days b-4 her own im getting through the fact i say its all my fault because i was shot also and i was with her when she died.so:( 0)-%---

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