being bestfriends with this guy from uni for the past 6 months. we grow closer and closer. finally we started sleeping over each other's flats. than we started kissing. that ended up having sex. at the begining he said he doesnt want us to sleep together since he's afriad we ruin our friendship. but things moved on this way and we ended up doing it. we acted as we were a couple, went out together, cuddeled, being together 24/7. he kept acting hot and cold which made us fight alot. i said i dont get him since i am not pushing him on being on a relationship and lets just go with it since i felt we are moving on the right track. than one days he comes over after acting cold and weird and tells me he is having a hard time on labling us. he doesnt know what we are. i said no pressure we take it day by day, but i think we are moving on the direction of being a couple. he said although we act like a couple he doesnt want us to be one. he cant tell why but just dont. i said ok assuming he's just afraid of it. and we said we will keep on this direction and see what happenes. i told him theres no way back anyways and we cant just ignore what is going on. than we went away for the weekend. while being there he said he doesnt want us to sleep together anymore because it's not going anywhere. i cried and told him we cant stay friends since i love with him and would be too hard. he said he loves me too and cried. said he doenst know why but he cant take it to the next step. which was weird since we already act as if we were together. but ok. i didnt talk to him for a few days, i was supposed to give him an answer on wheather or not i can still be friends. than i called him up and said i think we could be just friends. i care for him too much to loose him completley, and seeing him each day at uni and not talk was too hard. he said he loves me and cares about me alot, more than i know. he said he'd be jealous too if i dated someone else. right now i just not sure if i made the right call or not. he's still in my life, but things are weird. i am fusrtarted on how things came out. and to tell you the truth not sure if i want to be with him at all with all this hot and cold of his. am i making a mistake keeping him close? i still hope somewhere he'll change his mind, and by shuting him off completley this might never happen. what to do what to do?