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anyone with any advice plz help me
- By senior2009
- 05.12.2008
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NiCoLiE
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 | i think you should definately forget abut ZC. i've sortovebeen in the exact same situation with my first love he would alway would just come and go out my life as much as he pleased and becaue i lovd him i always let him back in. The last time we it happened he came down to visit his family and friends and i had a boyfriend he just couldn't stand the fact that this time i wasn't willing to give someone up for him and he started to make me feel guilty and commig over saying he loved me finally i broke up with the person for him cuz i didn't wanna lose him and he wore me dow. he basically changed his mind said he didn't love me and got married. I don't kno ur ZC bu make sure he has really changed and isn'tjust doing cuz he doesn'tant anuone else t have you. AD sound nice but it doesn't seem like u like him much i think u should give urself sometime being single. |  | |||
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senior2009
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| thank you Zach did tell me he would change before so i gave him another chance but nothing changed and Alex is really sweet and i do like him i just feel bad for him cuz i feel like im not committing my slef to him since i still love Zach and still think about him | | |||
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morninglight
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| This is easy! ZC loving relationships are not marked by fighting and any fighting only escalates after people are connected in a formal way. As a rule of thumb: it only gets worse with time. Anything you did have was sort of ruined when you dated the other guy (that was the time for taking a time-out from dating). But that's definitely a good idea now. I'm afraid the other guy, no matter what he says, woudn't really trust you either. As far as planning futures out...thats hard to do at any age because much of life doesn't follow a plan. Holidays are a good time to reconnect with family anyway and then just lay low for a while. Also, anyone who brags about having 9 girls before you is likely a "head case" anyway and a liar to boot! who mentions things like that? | | |||
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Patience09
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| so... i've been in this same situation more than once... but more recently than ever... honestly, i need help too, but i can give you advice that others have given me about the same thing: 1) Be yourself and have fun, whatever is supposed to happen will. 2) It's obvious that ZC really cares for you, but love is a giant step... it's more than a feeling, it's a decision and a commitment that from the looks of it, he's not ready to take. 3) Stay single for a while and have fun!!! I'm also in my senior year, so i'm taking a break from the relationship scene, and i would suggest the same to anyone. Yes, i'm in love with someone and have been for two years, but he's in the Navy and never home, not to mention we also fight all the time and have had our splits, which i hate, so i'm staying single and waiting for him, but i'm not gonna sit around and wait for him to change like he's promised time after time he would. If you can see a change in ZC before you decide to get back together, not just a change a for a week either, at least a few months if not more, then go for it. Otherwise, you may just waste your time by being with him. As far as AD, it's probably not a good idea to be with him if it doesn't feel right. Most of all, be true to yourself first. Try not to let the guys influence you, follow your heart. Stop worrying about hurting them, cuz either way somebody will be hurt. Whatever you decide, protect yourself and don't let yourself get hurt in the process. Worry about YOU! | | |||
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zurice
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| it's simple' just toss a coin' ZC on the heads, and AD on the tails' or vice versa' not that the coin will determine who's who or better for you' but while the coin is in the air' you will suddenly know, who you are hoping for' and knowing it will clear your mind about who you should be with' it's just following your heart' but remember, the heart is not always right, not that is is always wrong either' those who enters something like yours must be prepared to be hurt' if you get hurt in the end' you must not regret, because you followed your heart, and you've been happy for that decision. so while on it, make the memories last forever. i think i don't have to elaborate on that any further' good luck' ^^ | | |||
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taycrockett
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| All I can say to you is that no matter how much love you may think you have for him or he may have for you, I PROMISE you, you're next relationship you will be thinking, "I can't believe I even liked Zach, this is what true love is." Maybe it will be true love, maybe it won't, but it will always get better. Always. | | |||
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