Wow I haven't written on this site for years! I use to love it and be on here all the time then all of a sudden I just stopped :(
Well it's been a rough few weeks for me I met this guy and he took me on the ONLY date I have ever been on it was great, I fell for him straight away...well we fell for eachother straight away. The next day he was telling me he was totally smitten over me and was very close to saying he loves me...like 3 days later he did tell me he loves me. It was going great for like 2 weeks up until 1 week ago. Heres just a bit about him. He is living with his ex fionce (they had been over for a while) but still lived together until the lease on there house expired so they could go there seperate ways, he never told her about me cos he thought she would react badly.
Anyway so we were going great until this one Friday night when she found parking tickets from the days we had been meeting up (he had been lieing to her everytime we met up) so she saw them and was questioning what he had been doing. I don't know what exactly when down but he came to my house quite annoyed and things weren't the same from then on, she was calling every 2 minutes and he wouldn't answer. The next day he eventually sent her a msg and told her he had met someone but we weren't actually dating,that kind of hurt me but I didn't say anything. Anyway she calmed down after he sent that and he seemed happy again. He spent the rest of the weekend and left on the suday, it kind of seemed like he couldn't wait to leave. We didn't speak till much later that night when we were on facebook and he told me his ex was moving out in a week and when she is gone i can go there and spend nights there.
The next day i woke up and had no messages from him (he use to send me one every morning) i was sad so i just sent him one asking if everything was ok? he told me he needs to adjust to his new life when she is gone cos he would be strapped for cash living on his own and he would be upset letting go of a long term relationship. I told him i could understand cos I was the same everytime i broke it off with someone. After that I got no more messages from him that night. I messaged him a few times just trying to talk to him. Hours later and probably lik 10 messages later he was on facebook and told me he was at indoor cricket...I was like ok but why couldn't he respond to my messages between when he finished cricket and got home... he then stopped talking to me.

Two days had past and I hadn't got a sinlge message from him. Then one day he sent one saying sorry he hadn't messaged and he is adjusting blah blah blah. So I just wrote back and what do you want with me? and he sent back "just 2 understand" I told him I do understand and then he stopped replying again. I guess a few times i went a bit crazy and sent to many messages but i thought he loved me so he would atleast talk to me.

A few days later i found out he had been talking to one of my friends on the dating site i met him on (by accident) and he had been telling her he met a girl who turned out to be a nut job and got too clingy. He told hee that he told me it was over (which he NEVER did) then he was saying he never thought i was the one. When I found this out i was heart broken,my friend hasn't told him she knows me and probably wont for a while.
This really hurt me cos it was going so well.
Was I just a rebound.

I would appreciate some feedback especially from some guys
Thanx