Those are feelings that have to do with control and less about Love. There is no way to make love pain-free. You'll be unhappy in love until you work on the other things that are bothering you inside. If you are ever in love and feel like hurting someone, it's best for both that you just be a man about it and walk away. Most love affairs fall apart in time. True love is a rare thing and if you ever find that...treat it gently if you wish to keep it. Good luck!

The search for true love is always one that involves heartbreak and pain. True with anything you risk putting your heart into.....which is your choice to do or not.