I read something in a site about how to choose someone. It says there that when you choose you have to choose from the heart and you also need to use your brain. There are just two major question that you need to ask your self. First is "who are you happy with?" and Secondly; "who can you share your sadness with?". If you can answer those questions with the same person, Lucky for you! If your answer varies then you need to chose the one that you can share your sadness with because in life there are just few moments of happiness and you can always share it with anyone; even your friends. Reality shows that life is full of despair, sadness, cruelty and chaos; if you can share this to the one whom you choose then you can as well share your happiness with him/her.