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Im 15 and currently with my girlfriend who 16 and is living in Australia while i reside in Malaysia. I met her four months ago via online and she was just such a depressed girl, have eating disorders, and just having lots and lots of problem. She does have a bf then but i dun think he cared about her. Everyday i would come online to listen to her problems, give her advice, and just try my best to make her happy. Every night, i would sms her and chat with her till she falls asleep. After doing some investigation, i found out that her bf is a playboy (got other gfs) and i helped her dump that guy. After that she asked me to be her bf but i wasn't ready so i asked my friend. After a week, they broke up my friend says she couldn't stand this girl cuz she's just lots and lots of problem. The girl was sad and being a depresee, she wanted to commit suicide, i stopped her and told her i would be her bf. That was four months ago... Now my gf is so much better, no longer depressed and less eating disorder. She's reli happy now. I was happy too until now. I sacrificed everything for her, i would spend all the tym i can haf being with her, buy presents for her and her family, i even stop studying and did badly for my exams. Everyday we would sms and its real expensive too the credits. Sometimes i feel that i have done so much for my girl, beyond what i can yet i still do. But what hurts me now, she got webcam and she's attractive i just hate it wen i noe that ppl tried to flirt with my girl. And why? because she lyks wearing revealing too it just hurts me so bad. Everyday there would be guys trying to take her away from me. And there's plenty rumours that she's a play girl a couple of my friends already warn me that i will regret. But my girl i dunno why, i dunno how... i trust her. And i do noe that my gf loves me.. but sometimes i dun feel any love, sometimes i have to beg for affections from her and this makes me so stress that i just wanna lay alone and cry. But i dun wanna break up with this girl, I love her so much and i noe she loves me too.. Please help...
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jniday1
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First of all, I understand what you are going through. When me and my girlfriend first started dating, I was not getting the affection I needed. She had been hurt so much in the past, that she was just in a routine when it came to love and emotions.
 
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I would give her the love that she needed and would tell her (in a non-caring way--don't make it sound too serious or demanding) what I wanted...and now we're engaged. Second of all, if she has done nothing to lose you trust, then keep trusting her.
 
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Friends always want to look out for your best interest, but they can't always see the whole picture. Friends are great, but they can be one-sided when it comes to things like this. Hope this helps some.
 
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THINK ABOUT THIS..IS THE RUMORS IMPORTANT TO YOU?..OR YOUR GF?..

YOUR GR IS WHOM YOU LOVE ..SO TELL HR HOW YOU REALLY FEEL SO THAT YOU WILL NOT BE CONFUSED ANYMORE,,TALK TO HER ABOUT WAT YOU WANNA ASK HER..ITS BETTER BE FRANK THAN TO BE SILENT IN A WAY THAT YOU ARE NOT YET SURE IF SHE LOVES YOU,,
 


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