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My parents are making me choose between them or my boyfriend!

I'm in a serious situation and I can't seem to get out of it. I've gotten to know someone for the past 1.5 years and I finally see that he is the love of my life. We started off in a strange situation, and were dating for a year in secret. But we were never in a relationship. We had a huge fall out 6 month into it and eventually started dating other people. However our hearts were still for each other. We both have very jealous personalities and everytime I found something out about him and another girl, I got really upset and, like a stupid little girl, went to go talk to my mom about it. She's seen me cry, be upset, and emotionally scarred for how he was treating me. But now that we are ready to be together and finally be open and be in relationship, my parents disapprove and don't want me to be with him. In fact, they are starting to shut me out of their life if I don't break it off with him! I live in another country from my parents so we don't get to see each other often, so many times they don't know what is going on in my life if I don't tell them anything. I see their point and how they don't want me to be with him, but I don't want to break it up! I want to make myself happy by giving my parents what they want, and by being with him. What do I do? Should I stay with him and not tell my parents about it? I don't want to lie, but this seems to be the only way... I can't tell my boyfriend that I've been running off to my mom, he'll be so upset. What do I do???

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Be honest with your parents and tell them that you are and will be with this person if they shut you out then it is how it has to be, God says to cleave unto your spouse as this is now your family, you cannot live your life for your parents you are an adult I am assuming since you are living in another country, if it is meant to be then it will work out and your parents will see that it is if it is not your parents will be there if you walk away from him. My son has gone through this same thing with his now wife, her parents did not agree but they are married now and have a baby on the way, although she has times that she is sad that her parents took the stand they did she is more happy that she chose to marry my son her life feels complete with him. But honesty is the only way to go in this area of life....good luck and repost to let us know how it is going.
 


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