Is there really love as Un-requited LOVE? Well, based upon my own experienced, I never have an unrequited love,so far..I was not in love so strong before I met James. But, I have met a guy before when i was just 16 years old, he thought I was the woman for him, but then he got married when I was just 18, and its funny coz until now his wife is very much jealous of me.I wonder if he gave any indication or a reason why his wife is jealous even if she just heard my name.Could it be an unrequited love..(.LOL).
Another guy, he is the son of the school owner,they belong to rich people, I may say. And me well..I am just an intelligent but very poor girl. He showed interest in me, when I was in second year college,but I avoided him, so we don't have a history in the past....He got married when I was 23 years old, then after 12 years, we saw each other again, he has only one son.I thought, the game he was playing when we were young is over, but then here he comes again, asking me to spend sometime with him, even after he met James.My gosh! is there really a person like that? I wonderdon't they have any respect to their partners?(sighing).
This last guy is my puppy love, he was the cutest and the most handsome in the campus during our time. I am not pretty but well, i am attracted to handsome guys,.(.lol) maybe because guys likes brainy girls than pretty but dull.But,well...our situation is like Tom and Jerry,we always fight..but we were the best of friends.We thought we became bf and gf,but I don't know if its just part of being a young boy and a young girl. Well,anyway because he have plenty of gfs, one of them got pregnant right away after we graduated in high school, so at the young age he became a father and a husband.But,until now,if we saw each other in the bus or in the church, he always said..he will never forgot me even if we became older than this time but he never never did any advances,just saying it..
The three situations, I don't even know if what they felt for me is love. Oh I have to say that never of those guys got serious relationships with me.Unrequited love is when you were having a relationships with someone and the other party just went out of love.sometimes you think that you fell in love when you admired someone,or when you felt good whenever you are with this particular person.Then,the relationships felt so perfect felt so good ...but all of a sudden,its gone....Only heartaches and pain remains with out knowing why?
Then, we felt rejected,insulted,we felt less in our self,we even think that you did not do your best to save the relationship, you maybe blamed yourself, but we must not forget that even if we lost our so called love of life,we still have ourself.
Love is loving yourself, then.. you can love freely to anybody with out fear,with out doubts.An example...I read in some articles...why in the airplane, you will be ask to put the airmask first for yourself before helping others?...Do you know why? because how can you save others when you are struggling for your own breath...Its like loving yourself first before loving others,if you love yourself only then you can love others with all your heart.
LOVE is when you felt comfortable even the person you love is a thousand miles away from you,if you felt fear,anxiety,frustration because your love one is very far from you then its not love, you are just infatuated. You see,when you truly love someone..you will feel the love everywhere,anytime,any place,not only when you are with your beloved.You felt complete even she or he is not with you. You feel secure even when you just think about him or her,thats true love.