When someone closes the door,there are many doors open for you.I wish you luck with you to your new beginning.

Your right but when someone closes a door and keeps visiting you every five days or so ...I need the strength to close the door on them ....and I can't because its me who is in love and not him. thanks I will try..

Sometimes,we need to be firm to those we love.Sometimes too we realize thats its important when we lost it.Put a distance between you and him,maybe a month..you know even a day would make a difference.And try not to think of him for that period.
I said,with my own experience.Before i met my husband,I thought I was inlove of this guy,he have sooooooooooooo many gfs,and he did not even considered us his gf.,we were just his so called friends.So I let myself think the same way he think of me...and i tried to stop thinking of him as a bf.that helps a lot,it makes me free to make new friends,and thats how I met my husband.And I realized I don't love him at all,I just need someone to need me those times.
I hope this will help you.Men are men,they won't realized how important you are until,you are with someone else.Goodluck!

I have left sixteen says pass...last weekend when he called I said that I could not continue to see him the way he wanted no feelings attached. He was angry or so ....but after 15 days later he shows up and has a intense emotional aggressive conversation. He wants me to meet his family...next saturday I still do not believe it until I'm there.....thanks for your advice..