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Confused.. Help

I have this friend and her step brother and i have been talking alot for the last two months and going to each others houses..
but he thinks he likes this girl which was also my friend before that but she has him so caught up in her lies because she is confused with 3 guys and whenever you ask her what one she likes she will say i dunno, so there was a dance Friday and she told his step sister to tell him that she will dance with him but not be with him if you get me so she decided halfway through the dance that she'd hold his hand so they started too and then they came over to me and she sat by me and she was like whats wrong i was like nothing she goes yes there is and its a guy i was like no it isn't and she was like yes it is and hes here so well i am assuming she knew then that i liked him but she kept doing what she was doing he told his step sister too tell me he would dance with me but by the time she remembered it was already playing the last slow song of the evening. But at that point it didnt matter anyways because i was going with him after the dance too his dads and we were talking and carrying on and he was telling me sorry and hows he a ass and all this i started to feel bad because its obvisious he likes her but the thing is i like him alot and shes only going to hurt him but am i stupid too think he likes me too deep down because he was willing to dance with me hanging out out of the blue inviting me to come to his basketball games talks to me on the computer telling me sorry and feeling like a ass because he figured out at the dance that i liked him or are we just close friends... ?

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JungleJim
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You're going about it all the wrong way. He confided in you in the very beginning that he liked the other girl. He's like my brother...his ego is far to sensitive to ever ask a girl out or to dance....therefore the only girls he meets are the low-hanging fruit that are "Sure things". He's hanging out with you hoping you make a move on him but really he'll gladly trade you for the next girl who comes along. That's neither a good friend or a good boyfriend....sort of a throw-away: (Sorry brother!). He is an ass and he's apologizing now because he wants to keep you and the other girl interested. I think you can do better but if you think this guy is the Cat's Pajamas.....read my post on How to Lasso Yer Man........Also, my post on how to Tell If Yer Guy Is A Loser...

Once someone is identified as a loser: Lose Them! Otherwise they grow back stronger like a crawling mold or fungus. Send him an e-mail to wish him luck with his new girl and then just make yourself scarce. He'll feel a little the way you're feeling right now and there is poetic justice to that.

Another word of wisdom: While you're hanging with this excuse for a guy...others will perceive that you're going out with him or something and you'll be regarded as taken.
 
skittles225
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Yes i know he told me in the start he likes this girl but this was awhile ago so i thought maybe he got over her because they didn't even get anywhere yet but.. he even told me that he don't think they are going to get anywhere and honestly he is a very nice guy don't get me wrong hes a sweetheart and don't want to hurt anyone just i think hes very confused and i don't know what to do because he is believing her lies :(
 


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