You've gone through all these scenarios in such a way that you're leading everyone to the conclusion you wish (a green light to have a baby...you even dissed your sister and implied that dad may not live to see YOUR child)....Some might call this manipulation!
But you're an aspiring Psychology student...wonderful! Then why are you allowing you boyfriend to beg for a child...he's manipulating you now.
But of your Dad.....do you want to give him that heart attack? Then have a kid out of wedlock...that will do it!
And you mom....has she done such a terrible job that you wish to rush and shun her good advice (the only thing she's wrong about is marrying into money). That won't make you happy.....just make life easier.
But your mom is exactly right. In college you're going to be exposed to more people. You're going to get your degree and you'll be a little older and wiser. Traditionally people break up before going to college and there is a good reason for that: FREEDOM....Freedom to find out who you really are and to explore. IF you're let's say 18 and you've been dating this guy for 7 years...that means you were about 11 years old.....that's not a relationship....that's puppy love! I'll bet he's a few years older too.
So it sounds like I'm being harsh but I'm really trying to give you some positive advice. Which is: Mother knows best!!
Trust others on this: Your perception of things is likely to change dramatically in the next 5 years. There is no rush to having kids these days. Most people are now waiting until their 30s.....to have some fun...enjoy life a little, become more established, settled and to give their kids a better life.
Sorry I didn't see it the way you were leading or if it sounded harsh. It's your life....do what you feel....but consider the others. A mother would never knowingly give "Bad" advice....consider that!
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