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DidI do the right thing?

By confused.
09.10.2006
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	OK well... I met this guy in an AOL chatroom about 3 years ago... we talked online like everday for a good year then I finally fessed up and gave him my cell number but I wouldnt let him call me.We just text... that went on for a good year or so and like we were really close... I guess you could say... as close as you could be through txting and the internet... well, this past year I had sex for the first time but it wasnt with him... due to the fact that I had never met him... and well we were what he said "talking" but I still had not met him... well I told him I had sex and he totally and completely fliped monkey sht on me he stopped talking to me for like two weeks... he acted like we were dating and that I cheated on him... but I didn't... but he gave me a second chance... to be friends with him... and like we got ever closer after that because he came up to my city for a family wedding and I met him... and like I don't know but I just fell head over heals for him... and he said he felt the same way... so we were I guess u could say "acting" like we were dating... like we would talk on the phone till 5 or 6 in the morning every night... we would txt each other constantly... he would call me while he was in school just to say hi... cute things that every girl wants... well... we got into a stupid little argument over something I don't even remember and he went off and drank and started dating this chick up in the town he was moving to, to go to college... well I went down to see him bcz he was moving out of state idk... because him dating her tore me up but we still talked like before he even talked sht about her... and when I went to see him he came to my hotel and like... we cuddled all night... and when he would come in to kiss me... I would be like I don't think ur g/f would like this and he would be like fck her what she don't know won't hurt her... and then he would kiss me... me the stupid one in love with this guy let him... but like it didn't go any farther than that... so he moved to go to college and I told his g/f over myspace that he cheated on her... and she broke up with him... and then I went up to see him at his college and we hung out all weekend... like I would go pick him up at his college all weekend we got kinda intimate one day but nvr had sex... then the next day he came to my hotel really really early and climbed into bed with me and slept with me until that afternoon... like it was adorable... but after that things went down hill... personally I dont trust many chicks... because I know how they are... especially college girls and we would just fight fight fight... and one day I just told him ya know what I don't feel like ur even giving me the respect I deserve so good bye... just like that... and I mean... I regret doing that but did I do the right thing... because we weren't dating and I wanted to but he didnt... and he has lied to me about so many things but still denys them but I have proof he has lied... did I do the right thing by cutting him out of my life? Written by confused.* Submitted by confused.

Christy

732 days ago Reply

I think you did the right thing. It sounded like he just wanted you as a chick on the side. thay isn't right you don't want a relationship like that. I'm proud you had enough balls to tell him off. Just don't go crawling back to him. If he really cares about you he will come back to you and admit everything he lied about and everything will work out, but if he doesn't come crawling back don't you go crawling back. You did what you had to do. You did nothing wrong he did. Be stong girl you will find that special guy one day. And if it isn't him than who cares you deserve to be treated like a princess not a two cent hoe. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

Zaria

674 days ago Reply

You definitely did the right thing. You are a strong woman who deserves respect.

Way to go!!

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