Hi Shella, I just read what you wrote here. And I'm sorry about it. Well, A sad thing in life is when we meet someone who means a lot to us, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and we just have to let go. And sometimes things happen to us that may seem horrible, painful and unfair. Life is not easy and it's difficult all the time. Just do whatever you must feel and keep in mind that we all grow wiser and become more sensitive. You can live with your baby without him. Be strong and you will find the right man one of these days. You'll be fine, woman. Enjoy life !

hi shella
I just read your story and I just have to say I know what you are going through the same thing happened between me and the person I loved and now I have a baby but at the end everything will fall into place trust me . just keep strong don't worry about it because just like my boyfriend yours will see what a big mistake he made and he will regret it just keep your head high and live life. I wont lie it's not going to be a piece of cake but you will be very happy at the end ..

hey,shella...i know that u must be very down feeling and sad now..but life goes on..time will cure up everything..i know its rather easy to say than do.but u have to be strong.Things happened and thr is no use for you to keep thinking of the past.You have to switch all ur attention to other things.You have to forget him.You have to be tough,to be a good mum..Its better for you to know that he is such an irresponsible man rather than after u get married wit him.You should be happy to realize this earlier.Think positively...i know u can do it....take care,girl...

hi dear
many people will giv u many suggestions. but listen to the 1 wat ur heart says. lets never expect anything from anyone.This is life lets be strong enough to face the situation. everything is possible in life lets do it m always there wid.

dear shela,
your story is very interesting........ but there's a time that basta! parang OE...... JOKE LNG!!!!111