hey whats up girl.... well I just wanted to say that I think he still like his ex-girlfriend..... its only obvious cause he told you that his not ready for a girlfriend... whenever someone says something like that it means that they still have hope that one of this days they might get back together.

okay this is how it is.... because It's how I am with guys now even if I like them so......he really loved his ex girlfriend and even if he did get with you he probably break it off sooner or later with an excuse so give him time dont smuther him but distant your self from him alot. Then the magic .....you slowly hook them and rail them in thats how I felt with the guys I said I wasnt ready to date, they pushed me away and then I wanted them. Life is weird but it's just the way it works.

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you sound like me a couple months ago, and my story ddidnt end with happily ever after. He hurt me, we kept hooking up but then randomly one day he stopped talking to me completely.. I found out him and his gf had gotten back together.

he had told me all the same stuff that you posted on here. And I felt the same way as you, except I got majoraly attached to him which lead me to geting hurt.

That sounds a lot like my current situation.. I met this really great guy through a friend, but we live 18 hours apart. Within no time at all we realized how great we could be together and we started talking on the phone- 3 hours a day... on the internet.. anything to be "near" each other. He told me that he loved me and I was convinced that I loved him. So I decided to stop seeing my friends with benefits dude, who was an amazing guy who claimed to have fallen in love with me. He was heart broken and sent me love letters and poems for weeks, asking what went wrong. I myself was wondering how I could p*ss up on something great but the answer was right in front of me: my long distance love was blossoming and it felt right. Then Mr. Long Distance suddenly tells me that he still thinks about his ex and how much she broke his heart and he's still not over it. I'm crushed. I really don't know how to take it. I mean, he keeps telling me that he loves me and that I mean more to him than anything in the world.. but I can't shake the feeling that this ex still has a grip on him (even though she wants nothing to do with him). It hurts that I can't be enough.. so I've started hooking up with my former friends with benefits once again.. behind my boyfriend's back. I'm confused because I think I truly care for both of them.. I just don't know if any of it is really love.

I m a girl who lived THE SAME BULLSH*T EEVRYDAY!
What do you think? Is it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?
READ MY STORY "confessions of a broken heart and reply me on: my_sweet_misery999@hotmail.com or unknown_scorpion00@hotmail.com
with love,
michelle