 | Forgive But Never Regret
I believe that all relationship no matter how painful it was should not be forgotten because everything in our lives happen for a reason.
The pain and the tears you have suffered fighting for the relationship are worth remembering because it will remind you of how much you have grown and the lesson you have learnt because of that experience.
It is also a way to realize that when we get hurt, It is one way God is telling us that not all that’s painful is bad or wrong. We get hurt so we’d never hurt others the way we were hurt.
When you love, you thought you would never get tired. You thought it would never end. You thought you’d cry when love says goodbye. But how funny, it seems after a while you’ll tell yourself,”I’m fine”…
Cry But Don't Stumble
All crying not directly precipitated by physical pain is preceded by a person saying something to theirself that is 'cry-worthy'!" So tears usually don't just happen, most of our tears are precipitated by something we say to ourselves just before they flow.
Crying well means to cleansea, to let go of or release feelings. When a person is done crying well, they feel lighter, more at ease, and usually a little better about themselves, their world, and their prospects for having some control. Life hasn't necessarily gotten any better, but their perspective of life and themselves has. So they still may feed sad and hurt and down, but they are less likely to feel rotten and depressed.
Crying Poorly means to hang onto and go over and over your thoughts about something painful (i.e., Twisting the Arrows!!) sort of like a cat chasing its tail.
When love is lost, do not bow your head and look at the ground because of sadness, fear and anger. Instead keep your head up high and give it to the heavens, for this is where your broken hearts has been sent to heal.
Pick up the pieces but never fix it
Life is only understood backwards but it must be lived forward. When you pick up the pieces of your broken heart you should never fix it. Anything that’s broken can never be put back as it was before. It can be fixed but it will still have the mark - scars that will forever hunt you.
Fool me once shame on you, Fool me twice shame on me.
Feel the pain but never keep it
We are only healed of a suffering only by experiencing it to the fullest. Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.
Move on
We cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters, if we want to go on with our lives then we have to leave the past as we turn the pages of life and keep in mind that since we're moving on there is no turning back.
Written by Honnei
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