I know how hard it is to forget about someone like that. Someone you talked to about everything, shared your deepest secrets with that person, like that person was a part of you. Then they go do something that just totally 360's how they were before, and all you want to do is forget about that person, but its just so damn hard...here's a quote my friend told me that I repeat to myself over and over until at least part of me doesn't want to be with her anymore.

" messes around, but doesn't want you."

It might sound stupid, but its a beginning.

I can relate. Just remember he's a jerk and eventually the feelings you have for him will go away. Occupy yourself with other things that make you happy.

well first of all I think the first decision u made about not talking to him was the right decision but writing him a message and telling him u missed him was just plain dumb because guys take advantage of those kinds of things....so in a way it is good that he didnt message u back becaus now u cant do anything with him that u would regret. And I think u have really good friends if they told u not to hang out with him anymore so u should thank each and every one of them for their good advise.

Hey Girl
I can relate to your story becaues I am going through situation..I am 16 now and he is 20...I really love this guy so much I cry myself to sleep every night.I know him for 2 years going on 3 years in september..Few days ago I came on msn and in like 10 mintues he came on too..He always talks to me first I never do..Everything was ok about 30 mintues then we got into argument and he told me this. This is his own words to me"I never liked you ljubica I just thought you had a nice butt and nice body and I wanted to get in your pants "<---when he said that my whole world has crushed down..Also when he said that I broked down and cryied.That same day when he told me that he came around 10.00pm in evening and he started to talk to him and these were my words to him"Its over"....It was hard but I had the strength to tell him.After that all happend I did not talk to him for 7 days I left so good so happy not hearing his lies and I did not think about him at all.sO on the 7th day he came on and I talked to him..I was so stupied to do that...Plus on that 7 days he never came on or he blocked me.i gave him so many chances..The reason I talked to becaues I was under alot of pressure and stress and I missed him alot..I talked to him last night which that Is August 5 2006 and we got into argument again he got pissed for no reason..He wrote this long message to me and left what he said in the message was terrible and I again cryed..Plus I was sick to and my stomache hurted and I did not go to sleep till 3 oclock in the morning..he blocked me and deleted me I think thats what he told me.he don't care if he hurts me he just knows a p*or girl loves him very much and he can play games with and I let him..So listen to me I learned my lesson.I don't know how old are you but I am just givivng you advice..Anways if any one reads this and has comments feel free to write..anways girl I wish you the best of luck and careful.
if anyone wants to talk to me about my situation add me on msn its ljubicabaotic@hotmail.com

ljubica a.k.a Serbain/Croatian Princeza

well - i learned my lesson

hi bell.....i think the story on top really made yor bell rang.....lolzz..wt i feel here is tht wt u hve is nothin bt infatuation......this will b ovaa as soon as u indulge in2 smthn or sm new guy. and this guy whom u hve feelings 4.....only wanted u 4 1 night.....which means he loved your body and not the girl or person u r........even if this guy cums up 2 u again dnt go out with him cuz.....all he loves is yor body and not the soul inside it.
peace....god bless!!! and naah.....u aint tht stupid....

hey bell........i dint saw the days the last comment was posted........Jesus Christ this is very old.......