I'm going through a break up too. He broke my heart twice. I don't understand men. I don't know what to tell you except that its painful. You want to believe in them so much and then you let your guards down. After its down that's when they walk all over you. I'm a men hater. I'm going to be alright. Just do whatever you can to get your mind off him. Its true u're way better than he'll ever be. Good luck and don't let him back into your life. I sure as heck aint letting anyone in. TAke care

Well I had my heart broken also. It was with my boyfriend Snoopy. He had said "TE QUIERO" and that he wanted me to be with him abd then the next day he broke up with me for no reason. I as like "MMM OK" But deep down it had hurt me so much. It had felt like I had gotten punched in the stomach and I felt I couldnt breathe. It was the worst feeling. Then he was writeing me messages sayting he was sorry and everything and that everything went bad without me and that he couldnt get me out of his head but I didnt want to fall for it. But I could let him go either. So we went back out. And then we broke up again but this time being my fault because I gto really scared thinking he was goning to hurt me but really I had hurt him. And now we are back together but to tell the truth I really dont understand men for anything. I dont trust men with love really. I think men like hurting us woman. They think we dont have feelings but when they get hurt their going to see the way we feel!

I was stupid enough to try thrice...She is just...I can't even begin to describe it...whatever...

~StarBoy

Hey. I know exactly what ur goin through. I went through that so many times. Except I got my heart broken more than twice because I was so in love with him and so stupid that I took him back several times. way too many times. and it took me longer than 5 months to get over it. i'm still hesitant to date because I don't wanna get my heart broken agian and this was almost two years ago. but I have realized that there are good guys out there that can love and treat you right. you just have to give it time. hopefully ur heart will mend. i'm just glad u seen what a jerk he was before u got too hurt like I did. all I can say is keep ur head up and stay strong.

Ya'll men haters, hehe. First off, not all men are jerks. However, most of them are. I'd say one out of every thirty guys are a keeper nowadays. Let me give you a tip, if you want to know if he is a keeper, ask him if he has goals, dreams, and ambitions. If he does, then thats very good, becuz he knows what he wants. Now all you need to know is if its You he wants. See if you have similar interests. But most of all, without asking him, see if when he talks about the future, if your in it, then he is serious about you. When I say future, I mean thinking of you as a wife type of thing. But most of all, see if he has God in his life. A relationship without God will fall apart, this world is too corrupt. If he has all that, he's a keeper, and your a very lucky girl. Don't fall for the sweet talk, or the looks. Look at the character, not by what he says, but watch what he does. Trust me.