6 months is way too soon, Why do you want to get married? Does a marriage certificate really make that much difference at your age. I believe the reason you want to get married in such short time and at such an early age is a self confidence issue, as though a marriage will cease thoughts of infidelity. Why complicate the love you both now share. A marriage will only last AFTER you have given yourselves time to explore the world and each other. You need to give yourselves time to reflect on how you both act or feel, in certain situations, in order to address Compatability. Give yourselves time to face complex issues and If, afterwhich, You have the ability to agree, appreciate or understand each others points of view in many differnt circ*mstances, Then, you can be more *ssured of a lasting marriage. Don't jump the gun! If your love is real then you have plenty of time (unless your pregnant) Enjoy the love and time you have now! marriage brings alot of financial responsibilities that will invade your focus on just enjoying your love for one another. Good Luck in whatever you decide. Your Friend...Uptown

A couple does not need to get married to prove their commitment to each other. I would advise that if you can seriously see yourself with this individual for the rest of your life that you can try living with me. You are only sixteen, Marriage is a serious thing that is more for other people than for yourselves. I agree with Uptowns comments as well. Please take our words to heart. I wish you luck in whatever you decide to do.

A couple does not need to get married to prove their commitment to each other. I would advise that if you can seriously see yourself with this individual for the rest of your life that you can try living with me. Please take our words to heart. I wish you luck in whatever you decide to do.

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hey sweety,i'm young myself and I was in the excact same position a year ago.
i'm 18 now,and I am in a healthy great relationship.i live with my boyfriend of a year(which we have plans to get married and start a family within the next couple of years,we aren't ready yet)but anyways back to my story.i was 16 dating a 29 year old and right away we fell in love.we kept our relationship secret for awhile,but then we let it out.i had had a troubled past and so had he but I thought we were perfect for eachother.there is a couple of *sspects of our relationship I can't talk about but he never hit me or anything .i loved him so much and wanted to marry him so bad that I was completly blind to the utter truth.he had 4 other girls friends then me,i wound up talking to them many times.i also found out that he had slept with at least 10 of my friends(my 3 best friends I might add*b*tches*)i thought I knew him so well oh how stupid could I be.( I only hang out with my boyfriend now,dating that guy made me learn not to trust anyone until theyGIVE YOU REASONS TO TRUST THEM).don't put all your faith in this guy and just hope in your heart it will work out,make sure you have proof or his love,lets face the facts you are young, not stupid though,you are more valnerable then you know.Believe me honey being in love is so powerful,it gives you strength that you never knew you had. your high off power and drunk off love right now so you have to expect that your judgment might be a little off.hold of for a bit and whats the worst that could happen, you guys waited and then so you know the time is right you are sure of your love for eachother,or it doesn't work out and you didn't make a mess that you'll will regret having to clean for the rest of your life.i know you love him so much and he probibly does to but just ask him to just wait until you are 100% sure thats what you want.if he loves as much as he says he does he'll be either fine with it or relieved.sometimes guy say things to make there girls feel good(meaning it but not serious)you never know mabey hes scared sh*ttless but he doesn't want to hurt you so hes not saying anything.oh well sry for taking your time hope I helped.

6 months is not to soon cuz once u found the love of ur life u found them I got engaged at only 3 months with my g/f and we love eachother to death.yes we argue and we've every now and then we call it off but we always realize our mistake and always overcome them we have only been together for 9 months and we plan to wed on the day we met whuch happens to be on oct 28 but since im not legal to itll be in 2008 follow what ur heart tells you not these people on line tell u they dont evenknow u or how it is u feel so do what ur heart telis u to!!!!

Hi, Im 16, and my ex and I planned on getting married, having kids, we were and pretty much still are in love, but see, he broke up with me, got with someone else, and all that...see, youve been with this guy for only 6months? See, me and this guy were together for 2yrs! And we broke up. Guys are extremely immature, they want it all. You may not think hes like that, but TRUST ME! Nothing lasts forever! Only one thing is for certain and thats CHANGE! Sure, you may be in love with him, I dont doubt that, but 6months? Really now, ask yourself that...but I know youll do what you want to do, and you may not see it now, it will probably take time, espicially if you two really are into eachother, but Im tellin you!...men do not think the same way women do! Anyways though, I wish you luck, and really think about things before you do them.
Britt

Hey girl,
I read your message and what a lot of others wrote in reply. I know what you are going through. He's probably a great guy who makes you feel good about yourself. Think about it though. If he is a really great guy, why would he make you sign your life away to him so soon without giving you a chance to live life. What's the rush? The other thing to think about is that you are very young. I don't know how old he is, but think back five years. Things you liked then, your goals, and even your friends, have likely changed a lot. In five years, it will probably be the same, you will have changed, and so will he. You have no idea right now what kind of person he will be in the future. Be sure that you aren't looking through love's rose colored gl*sses, and give it time to see who he really is. Sometimes you will hear people say follow your heart, but you already love him, so follow your mind too okay?