Well, My friend, You are in a very common situation. Most girls, after having their hearts broken by a jerk, will need some time to adjust and to feel enough love for someone again to trust and chance that kind of pain again. DONT PUSH THE ISSUE.. that would be your biggest mistake, ALSO, Anything you tell her right now..such as: "I would never do that, I love you!" is not going to help. TRUST is something developed by a Feeling NOT by Words- This you must remember! The best thing to do is enjoy the time she allows you to spend with her and Don't Be Selfish - UNDERSTAND Her Feelings and love her enough to stand by her without pushing the issue just for your own gratification. A man who can put "His Lady First" is a man who will Enjoy the fruits of his comp*ssion for her feelings. This is because most men are unable to do this (Just as you were about to do) And the Men who learn to understand a ladies feelings and put her feelings first will be "one of a kind" "Unforgettable" and "Trustworthy" in a ladies eyes. Once you have learned to do this, you will also be treated with Love "Far and Beyond" what you are seeking now. RELAX, UNDERSTAND, and Be there for her..NOT WITH WORDS- WITH ACTIONS !! Good Luck! and I want an invitaion to the wedding- =0) lol - Your Friend...Uptown