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Is this called love?

Others say that love is hard, painful, and difficult to deal with. Is that true? Is that what love really is? I don't think love really exists... People like to hug and kiss and just be with one person and they call that love but is it?If you go to a party or anyplace that has a dance floor, and your girlfriend goes and dances with practically every man there... Is that called love? What if her boyfriend is the jealous type and he thinks she doesn't want to be with him most of time, because he feels that she can only have a good time if she dances with every guy? Is that called love?

What if she's NOT the jealous type and doesn't care if her boyfriend dances with any girl, but he doesn't want to because the only person he wants to dance with is her? Is that called love? Is love when two people that say they are together, but don't really stay by each other? It's confusing... I thought love was being able to love one person and feel something special when you're with her... Not being able to be guilt-free when you're with another girl and she doesn't care at all. Isn't that flirting? Or dating around? Or just simply talking? Or even swinging?

I didn't know love could be that way... Considering the fact that I'm that guy and my girlfriend is the girl. Is there anything I should do that could make me feel better about our relationship... I don't think so... Because I don't even think it is a relationship anymore... It never was and I don't think that there's such a thing as relationships... Is that called love?



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Piper
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Love exists. oh, it does.
Love is not any of those things.
Not even close.
It can't really be described in words, and not many people find it.
Most question it.
Love is made and cherished, and you know without a doubt it's there when you have it.
Love is special. Love is not lust. Love is not infatuation.
Love is willingly and unselfishly...amazingly... caring for this person like no other...I don't know how to describe it but I get choked up thinking about it.

You don't think about yourself first anymore, you automatically think of them.
You accept them and their flaws.
You want to make them feel like their the most special person on the planet, because that's how you feel about them, and that's how you feel when you're with them.
That's a very, very faint outline of love.
I think the best representation of love is comp*ssion and loyalty.
Even with the newness fades and you feel like you're "bored" the relationship I just adjusting to a more comfortable period.
Ah, love.

Yes, there are such things as relationships, which is society's term for people loyal to each other.
Im going to guess you haven't been in many relationships, or many good ones.
Why are you searching so hard for love?
Have a fun time, but don't push yourself because you THINK you should feel something you don't.
 
Piper
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*they're
*is just adjusting
 
Trickstar
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You know your in love, when your Mind cannot think, of what your heart has to say. When their is loyalty, honesty, and trust. When you don't have to think about it, that is when you know your in love. I cannot tell you what it is, but I can tell you when you have it.
 
scena
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actually you never meet the one who make you fall in love.
 


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