Wow, thats tuff. My friend was in a similar sitaution. Ok, first off... When you try so hard to fix something and that person seems to break it even more, its because he doesn't care. And if he doesn't care then why do you want to be with him? Hes a bad boyfriend and you deserve better. The girl hes wiht now, is going to go thru hell like you did. So, don't you dare get jeoulous of her. I can't love someone who doesn't feel the same for you. Its not good. Just try not to think about him and go out and look for more boys to chill with, or hang out with your freinds to get your mind off of him. It will be hard, but look at what hes done to you! Hes not worth your time or love.

Hey there. I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through this. I know it might seem like it's your fault, or that you could've save your relationship, but from what I hear..it's his fault that things went bad. I really don't think you should be wasting your time on him. He sounds like an *ss, espcially since you've went through so much trouble to fix the relationship, and he did nothing. It takes TWO people to make a relationship work out, and its very likely that that is the reason why it didn't work out. You can do better. =) Add me to msn if you want to talk some more.. xxkaylatritesxx@Hotmail.com
Kayla-x0x

I have been through the same except for mine was worser. See one thing you gotta know is when the 1st time he doesn't except what you do for him and the 2nd and the 3rd you gotta pick up from there and realize he's not really apprehsioning what your doing for him. I had to leave my n*gga because we fought everyday I had 3 girls and 3 boys by this n*gga and trust me don't ever get your self caught up like this again. But now look at me I'm an RN taking care of me and my kids but my husband I'm wit now is also supporting me and loves me to death we are together for 6 years now. Now u c what life has for you?

I have been through the same except for mine was worser. See one thing you gotta know is when the 1st time he doesn't except what you do for him and the 2nd and the 3rd you gotta pick up from there and realize he's not really caring what your doing for him. I had to leave my man because we fought everyday I had 3 girls and 3 boys by this man and trust me don't ever get your self caught up like this again. But now look at me I'm an RN taking care of me and my kids but my husband I'm wit now is also supporting me and loves me to death. We have been together for 6 years now. Now u c what life has for you?

It was not for nothing, this situation has an important lesson for you.
You can take good from this and grow as a person.
Be with someone who does appreciate you, who thinks you're special enough to be with, even if you live far.

I agree with all of you. I have been throgh the same EXACT thing. my ex did weed and drank and I ALWAYS went out of MY way to make sure I seen him and talked to him n he got everything he wanted. well he did and took advantage of me. DONT let someone like that do that. go out n hang with friends and other boys get him jealous thats exactly wat im doing right now. but I really like the boy im talking to now hes sweet and does everything for me. we're perfect.:) keep ur head up girl ur man is out there dont worry. have fun be young..!