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Can I really forgive and forget?

Hey, I have been with my guy coming up 4 months and we live together already (bit soon I know but I love him heaps). But about a month ago now I found out he cheated on me with his ex. I had to fond out threw one of my friends that she knows. It happened on this one night when he was looking after his auntie’s house and he told me he wanted to be alone, he told me she asked if they could talk so he invited her around. Apparently they slept together in the same bed but only kissed, when I finally found out about it I said I wanted to call her and find out if all they did was kiss but he refused to let me, which leaves me a bit s*ck.

I don't know what to believe, sometimes it really gets to me. He cheated on me about a week before Valentine’s Day, then on Valentine’s Day we bumped into his ex and we had a big fight over it. I'm not sure if I am over it, I found the Valentine’s Day card I got him and I just cried because it felt like a big fat lie. I want to (NEED TO) find out if he really did have sex with her ‘cause it's killing me. People what should I do? Should I have forgiven him?



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BeNsBaBy37
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omg...im sorry but that is rediculous...i have been with my guy for going on seven 7 years now and he has NEVER cheated on me...as well as I have NEVER cheated on him...cmon girl get a grip and grow a back bone...there is a love out there for everyone and they dont hurt you
 
SweetAsian
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I think u know the answer...come on...once a cheater always a cheater..do u have to catch them in the act of having sex for u to blieve it?? dump the loser
 
Ashley
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...I'm not a love expert...but I've always said...

"Never put yourself in a situation where something that shouldn't happen has a possibility of happening"

He knew what his ex was up to. You deserve better sweetie. Be strong.
 
Michelle Gilmore
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do wht you think is best for you...its your life, if you weant to be with him...see if you trust him, but if you want to leave him...there is more fish out in the sea...you'll find some one new...just do whats best for you...
 
Sensations
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Just leave him.
 
Ebony
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woman to woman that was not right what he did to you and I think if you truly love him you will tell him how you fell and work things out because there is know guy out there that is truly faithfull if you know what I mean so be strong and fallow your heart.
 
Melissa
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You need to dump this guy, no guy would do this to you if he really loved you! You can get so much better, you need a man that respects you and the relationship. Plus, fights will occur over it and you can't forget about it. Goodluck, I hope you make the best choice.
 
beautifullybroken
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Hey
i really understand u man i been wit my man for 4 years an he has been cheting on me time to time an i have always forgave him i kno i shouldnt it kills me everytime he does but i love him so much an i kno he loves me an they mean nothin to him i try to move on i cant he is cheating on me now i kno it wit his nepnew gf my old bestfriend therer is nothin i can do cos its my chose not to leave him an only be hurt but there is a thing Called KARMA it wiill hit him one day an he will learn an i kno bout my man everytime i broke up wit him he begs me back an i do it i think we are the stupid ones here an they are the smart ones but thats wat love does to us hope u sort it out an make the right move xxooo
 


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