Dear, never tell him first you love him and don't listen to anybody. It's the wirst idea to tell guys that you love them first, believe me! You can say I love you too, when he will tell u this.

First of all,
If you have been with him this long, and he is still saying that he wants to keep your relationship simple, I think you should be aware of this! I am not trying to put you on the spot or anything, but, trust me babygirl. I am married, and I am only 22. I have a great relationship. I didn't tell my (then)boyfriend that I loved him first, but, I did tell him how I felt! You have to do this. Men are far from perfect. Maybe he is guarding his feelings, and wants you to say something to show where you stand. Always be honest in a relationship. I say tell him. If he plans on never loving you, you will feel bad later on down the line. so, at least tell him how you feel for YOUR hearts sake!

hi..well I believe in that when you love someone say it then and there or the moment p*sses you by :)