Hey Ma!
Uhm.....I'm just wondering if you know what you really mean when you say you lost your virginity. It sounds like to me that you were raped! It might not mean more or less, but it is definitely not the same as having sex. And, you are absolutely right when you speak of the trouble you can get into just trying to have fun and not caring. Your story touched my heart. Not because it was sad or anything, it kinda was, but it touched me because you shared it, and didn't sound like you felt pitty for yourself. You are what they call a "thorough bred" meaning you keep it real, and you are
knowledgeable, and genuine! (and much more) Babygirl, you represent how young women are suppose to think after they make a mistake and suffer the coseguences. Don't get me wrong, ofcourse he was wrong, and no means no, but you put yourself in the situation, and took the responsibility. You aknowledged your fault. That makes you real, Ma! Unlike most young girls that something like this happens to, and there parents cry for and consoled them, never once asking, "what the hell made you put yourself in a sexual situation if you didn't want to have sex! So, I admire you, because this story is not about the creep that did it to you, but you talk about the mistakes on your behalf. Thank you for sharing it!!!!!!

ps. If you ever need someone to talk to, you can e-mail me at
t-ygood@hotmail.com

Listen hunnie I just wanna say this If u dont want to do something U WILL FIND A WAY TO AVOID IT, now ur sayin u hated this guy WHY DID U LET HIM IN??? Last summer I met a guy, and he wanted to have sex with me soo bad and he TRIED u have no clue how many times he tried when ME and HIM were alone in ONE ROOM TOGETHER, HE TRIED and I still didnt do it, when it doesnt feel right U dont have to do anythin Couldnt u just tell him NO AND WALK AWAY or Push him away ... Whats done is done Keep in mind NEXT TIME... NOBODY can MAKE u do somethin..