ok,
You shouldn't take your x- back, even if you do still have feelingf for him because if he has hurt you twice already chances are he will hurt you again! But he cant hurt you if you dont give him the chance to!
You should try to go out with the other guy, you know like start off with a clean slate and see what happens with him. But please dont take your x back because it sounds like you can do better than him and his heart breaks!!!
Good Luck!!!

First of all babygirl,
think of what you are saying about this ex of yours! What does it sound like to you? A doormat, yes Ma, a damn doormat. He thinks he can come and go as he pleases. This all falls into the place of having self-respect. Get some! Please don't take him back. Find someone that is going to respect you, and not try to walk all over you. He is not worth it. Wait for this other guy. And, while your waiting, put yourself out there. Go date. Meet new people. It might help to keep your mind off your ex. We, as young women have to try to remember that no matter how much it hurts, or how much love we have for a person, we have to love ourselves more. This means not ever, ever putting yourself in a situation likr this. You know what he is capable of babygirl. Just move on! If you do choose to take him back, I guarantee he'll play you again! Make the right choice for your hearts sake. Keep ya head up!!!!!!!!!

ps. Feel free to e-mail me if you need someone to talk to!
t-ygood@hotmail.com

thanx for the advice tha both of you it is really great and I really apreciate it muhco mucho gracias. I'm going to follow it and wait for the other guy and thank you so much you dont know just how much this means to me

Hey gurl,
Well I bn in yo shoez b4. My ex use 2 cheat on me and leave me ertime he wanted and my stupid azz alwayz took him bck when he said da magic words "Baby I Love You and Im Sorry" I learned to have self respect and relized I was bn a fool all alng don't take him back wait 4 sme1 betta 2 cme alng. My life without my ex has bn great afta 2 monthz of not bn with him I found who is now da love of my life. Well just wanna tell u dat u sound great n u shldn't let n-e guy treat u like dat if u have patience n wait I can asure u a great guy will cme ur way n ull b happy!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love LotZ HoPe U cHoOsE dA rItE tHiNg 2 Do!
BbByYyEeE

GURL!!!!!!!!! What is wrong wit you? Is your brain workin ok? Don't take your SORRY *SS EX BACK! Gurl, you better get that fresh meat, Before sumbody else does. Ur too dam good for you ex, He's gonna do the same sh*t again. I don't know u, But I find out you took you his sorry *ss back, I'll hunt you down myself and kick ur *ss. LOL i'm j/k. But you deserve A LOT BETTER. Your still young, You don't need that DRAMA, Let somebody else deal wit his sorry *ss

dont take ur ex back
go for the new guy
:D