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I'm going out with a guy I don't like

By chevelle_chick
24.03.2006
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	because I don't want to hurt him Ok, well anyways... There is this guy at my school that I have known for 3 years and he's liked me ever since then and in 9th grade he asked me out and I said no.Well we're in 11th grade now and the other day he wrote me a note and told me that he loves me and that he always will and wrote me a list of 50 reasons why he wants to go out with me, so I told him that we're too good of friends to go out and I wouldn’t want to end our friendship to go out with him, and I kept telling him that and he wouldn’t take no for an answer. Yesterday we were passing notes in class in 3rd period (you know friends stuff), but by the time we were in 7th period he was hanging all over me and I was like get off but trying to be nice at the same time because he's my friend and I don’t want to hurt him and then 7th period ended and I went home then when I got home he called me and then my sister took the phone and said "you should ask her out" so then she gave me the phone back and he asked if I would like to go out to the movies some time and I said sure (because going to the movies doesn’t mean you have to be going out) and then my sister was like "Are you going out?" and I said "No". So this morning I was hanging out with my group of friends and he is one of those friends in my group so my sister went up to him and told him to ask me if I would go out with him and at first I acted like I didn’t hear him because I didn’t want to say yes and I didn’t want to say no but then he kept asking and so did my sister so I couldn’t take it any more and said yes, but I have plans with another guy this afternoon and he said I don’t care. So now I don’t know what to do because that other guy that I have plans with is the guy I like and I don’t want to hurt the first guy (by like cheating on him with the second guy) but I don’t like the first guy like a boyfriend I like him as a best friend so how can I tell him that without hurting him? Sorry that was so long. *Written by chevelle_chick* Submitted by chevelle_chick

Matt

1457 days ago Reply

Well no matter what your going to hurt him! So my best advice is, ask him if you really love me, you'll let me be.
And if he doesn't leave you alone i'm thinking he's a little wierd. but if it's not true you can't keep it going and he'll get even more attached

Brittany

1457 days ago Reply

The person up above me is right...either way u are going to hurt him, it would have been better to tell him no in the first place and not lead him on like you did. Now to fix it right, well tell him how u really feel. Tell him u never liked him more than a best friend. Don't hurt him anymore by waiting either. Think of it as if he did it to u. You wouldnt want that to happen to u, would u

Marie aka Chiquita

1454 days ago Reply

Ok not to be mean or anything but if you stay with him then you are leading him on and when you do finally break up with him you will hurt him more then if you did it now so dont be selfish just let him off easy!!!!!!!!!!!!

chevelle_chick

1452 days ago Reply

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