My man in prison too, bout to come home in a couple weeks. aint start out like u and ya manz tho', FOR SURELY, but my man stepped to tha plate long time ago, so I never mind being behind him 110% threw that part in our journey. But U on tha other hand shawty, I can't call it. Ya man can make mistakes, but yo what he saids behind them 4 walls and what he may do when he comes out from behind them is real different things. u gotta understand men in jail or prison tend to say that sweet, good, to hear stuff cause they volnurable and need a womans attention. but look shawty, do u cause u gon do u anyways, just THINK before u just go with whatever just cause it feels good or sounds good at that moment. u gotta think for tomorrow, at least more respect to think whats best for yaself. FUKK that dude if it come down to it, dont stress ya self cause plez believe he won't stress his-self over u. Not if he cheatin and club hoppin, actin like a lil'azz boy instead a grown azz man. If he show and prove then consider giving him benifit of tha doubt, but if he don't. DON'T STUDY THAT N*GGAH. Leave him to tha byrds ma-ma, and focus on u. YA-HEARD????? I hope so!!

I say once a cheat always a cheat.... if his done it once.... who's to say he wont do it again.... and do u no how many other times his cheated b4?? anyway at the end of the day its up to you

I would say , please for the love of god, DON'T go out with someone you've only known for a month (out of jail). He was obviously GUILTY because he "turned himself in". On top of that he's already been in there a year and 3 months!? Obviously it was something quiet BAD that he did.

I'd say women - forget the guy, get someone new. You want to MARRY someone like that?

I'm SURE you're a beautiful lady with a warm heart, this is NOT the kind of guy you want to end up with. JUST BECAUSE HE'S THE NICEST GUY YOU'VE MET, does NOT make him a good Boyfriend, Husband, Father or whatever. Basically - just because he's nice doesnt make him "ALL IT".

Move on lady.

hey gurl. I know how you feel my man is in jail also. He has been there for 3 monthes and I miss him like crazy. Most people wouldn't understand how we feel. I told my man 4 weeks ago I loved him and he was happy to hear that I cared that much.He knows I am behind him!We write everyday and I go and see him on wednesday nights. My best friends sister kissed him this summer and I found out and we broke up and that was when he got locked up. Now we are back together and I love it.He writes me poems all the time that makes me want to cry!!!!!!Holla back!!!!!! I undertsand what you are going through.

okay. first of all the Babi chik? f*ck off. None of us need your negitivity and "concerns". these women arent losers. or failures. your only that when you have given up on yourself. and even after that you are capable of turning yourself around. on that note, I think you should give your guy a chance for a little bit.. let his actions make your decision. I mean.. maybe jail has awaken him? he could have changed in any way.. good or bad. also ive been cheated on. it hurts, but you have to decide one thing.. Is this person worth your tears? will seeing you upset make him change his ways? you've waited for him this long.. you might has well give it a try.

MY MAN IS IN PRISON BEEN IN THERE FOR
9 MONTHS ALREADY HE GET'S OUT IN 3 YEAR'S.I KNOW WHAT YOUR'LL GOING THROUGH.I MET MY MAN THROUGH MY AUNT ON
DAY AND HE STARTED HANGING OUT AND HE
WENT TO JAIL YEAH IT SUCK'S BIG TIME.

My life is like that too. My baby's daddy says one thing but females all around keep saying that he sexed them. It hurts because i'm pregnant and almost due with our daughter and he's facing 15 years in prison if convicted of his crime so I know. But I also know that this time he promised to change his ways and he is starting to make it up to me more and more.