Dearest Kacee,
The way you have expressed your problem reflects your innocent heart. Every human born on this earth goes thru the same phase as that of you. Some fight for it while most of them prefer to be silent. As my experience goes..i wud advise you to make patience & silence your weapon. When u wait in patience & silence, you wud able to know...what importance does this guy has in your life. once your inner WORLD is convinced, you can convince the outer WORLD easily.
CRUSH IN LIFE HAVE ALWAYS LEFT TEARS ON LOVE.
DELAYS ARE TEST OF SURVIVAL OF A REALTIONSHIP, NEVER THE DENIALS OF DIVINE...GOD BLESS & TAKE CARE

Hey

My boyfriend lives in a different country from me :O, but it just cahnge a the feelings we have for each other he is Dutch and im English but he can speak very good english , and im learning dutch we plan to live togther , but we have to wait TIME IS THE ANSWER, you and ur boyfriend are obv in love enought to have this realtionship Trust your self .....What other ppl think doesnt matter *hugs*

Wh*ssup gurl, im going through the samw thing, but with out tha parents. im 23 hes 18, hes goes to college in north carolina, and I live in south carolina. we met on the web too, we talk practicly everyday. I love this guy with all my heart, and he loves me. we only been talkin for about a month. but it feels like forever. he is my life, so im telling you to go with your heart, dont do anything drastic now cause both of you are still in school, but if things work out in the long run, then go with your heart gurl, I know I did.

Hey Phanida, trust is the key to a long distance relationship. I always trust my womanly instinct. Its usually right. If u feel that he's cheating on you..then you have a very valid reason to be thinking that. Heck yeah..if you tell someone that you love them and they don't say it in return...it usually mean they don't feel the same anymore. Maybe he's not seeing anyone behind your back..maybe he's just not feeling you anymore.
OOh yeah..I used to live in Rohnert Park..went to Sonoma State..
here is my email...happiee_1@yahoo.com

I moved away from a guy I like. About two hours away. I spent all summer trying to get his number. Once school started my friend got it for me. He called me up and we talked for 6 hours each day. He told me he loved me and did the same back. We got to know each other really well. Even with his crazy scheldule he still ends up talking to me everyday. We are both in 9th grade my mom told me long distance relationships are meant for broken hearts. We've been toghether for a year now and it has only made our relaionship stronger. We are planning to go to the same colleage and spend our lives together. So go for what you believe in. It only builds trust in the relationship.

hey I just got out of a long-distance relationship. and it would have worked...but other things happend. let me just say. don't get dicouraged! it can work ..it's hard...but it's so wonderful!!!!! I know and very well remember everything you're saying. it's wonderful to be in love...and when you're not with each other the level of love is soooo much deeper. you love each other for who they are..not what they are! stay strong and keep faith alive!

although long distance relationships can work I have to ask have you ever met in person? the person online can sometimes be really different from the person. And please please please don't run away together! Your parents will be beside themselves if they don't know where you are and because of the age difference, even if you go willingly, it can lead to your boyfriend being arrested if he's 18 and your parents want to press charges. So please think everything through and always let someone know where you are and never make your friends promise "not to tell" where you have gone off too. If your love can endure the distance until you are over 18 then I would say it is a great relationship.

hey girl whats up im kind of in the same problem I met a guy on the web we have been together 4 3 months don't break up with him if yall r really happy n love each other it will work out in the end here is my email I wanna keep in touch n see what happens with yall cause I need advice 2 well thanks bye chica miranda aka honeysweet58@yahoo.com

hey guys I just wanted to tell my story.. I meet this guy named cj over the net in the yahoo chats like 5 years ago...we really like eachother when we met and it grew over the years I love him soo much he started dating on august 30th ,2005 and we are still together we talk every day on the phone and he lives in st.louis mo and I live in topeka kansas.. he is the sweetest guy I have ever met in my entire like never met any 1 like him.. he is the perfect guy to me.we even have a song together called you found me by kelly clarkson....we don't really care for kelly clarkson but we both love the lyrics cuz it goes both ways..lol he said he can't see himself with any 1 else and wants to marry me and have kids sometime in the future.. before I met him I never wanted to get married or havin kids.. but he came along and changed that....pretty soon cj and his best friend keith witch is my best friend too they are comin up here to visin soon!!!!!!!!!!! and they are plannin on moving down here in 06!!! hell yeh ..

hey guys I just wanted to tell my story.. I meet this guy named cj over the net in the yahoo chats like 5 years ago...we really like eachother when we met and it grew over the years I love him soo much he started dating on august 30th ,2005 and we are still together we talk every day on the phone and he lives in st.louis mo and I live in topeka kansas.. he is the sweetest guy I have ever met in my entire like never met any 1 like him.. he is the perfect guy to me.we even have a song together called you found me by kelly clarkson....we don't really care for kelly clarkson but we both love the lyrics cuz it goes both ways..lol he said he can't see himself with any 1 else and wants to marry me and have kids sometime in the future.. before I met him I never wanted to get married or havin kids.. but he came along and changed that....pretty soon cj and his best friend keith witch is my best friend too they are comin up here to visin soon!!!!!!!!!!! and they are plannin on moving down here in 06!!! hell yeh ..

hey!!
ther vas dis guy I had chrush on him from da day first bt he vas nt interrested at me at all bt v go to da job together come back together he only kissed me dats it nothin else bt I vant a good relationship vit him bt how I dont knw

hey Kacee well I have the sameeee prob but my guy lives in the same state as me well I believe that u love him wit all ur heart and wanna b wit him jzt hopefully u two get to c eachother sometime...i never got to c mine bc he jzt broke up wit me well I hope u two have a good relationship n last forever!!
if u need to talk to someone if ur friends dont understand im here u can Email me .
Kalichk1@aol.com

I went through something very very similar. My guy lived all the way across the country, we were friends for about 6 years and kept in touch throughout the years. We started out as friends and then one day we started talking again and we were both available, so we began to fall for one another... and fall in love and he came to visit me at my parents house the first time. The second I went back there to visit him. The third he came to visit me and then we were stuck, the plane tickets were very very spendy and we didnt know where to take it from there, so he made the huge choice to move here. I honestly know that it couldnt have ever worked with us being that far apart. I am not sure if it is just us, being that we are both very effectionate people and we need to be able to give and have effection. Or if it was just that long distance cant work forever. i honestly believe that it cant last forever, its ok for a bit. but you will need something to happen eventually yah know? i hope for you that and him, that the two of you can be together shortfully. and this is just my advise from my point of view and through my expierences.

good luck hun.