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My military man (I need help)

Ok I have been talking to this guy online for about a month or so and we hit it off just like that. We can talk on the phone for hours at a time. We have met before but only once. But we spen like two days together and they were the best days of my life.Now he is saying that he likes me and everything but he dosent want to get attached before he leaves, he is going to be gone to Mississippi and Iraq for about 18 months. I want to ask him if he thinks if we talk while he is gone if there is any chance of us having a relationship that is more than friends when he gets back.........do you all think it is worth my time or am I just dreaming? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!


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CutieChristie
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Well..persnally I don get how people can fall in love over the internet.But I think u should live ur life dating with other people.And when he gets back if u he calls u or is still interested then I guess it would be meant to be.If u want to wait then jus wait for him and keep him in ur heart but date other ppl until u know he's back and wants u back.
 
SweetAsian
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Ooh my gosh Alison we are in similar situation. Please email me..lets talk.
I am seeing a military guy that's leaving for Iraq in a day or two. I need someone to talk to about this. Here is my email addy. happiee_1@yahoo.com...email me...
 
gina
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hey there.. it all depends on how much u like him.. is he worth ur time, when u cud be dating other guys trying to find 'the one', or not??.. do u just liek him or love him.. consider that.. I completely understand cause my bf is in the navy and he asked me to marry him before he left.. but we just wont get married til he can get permanently settled somewhere.. so think about it..
 
lisa
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hey....another in same boat you are. met my guy on line while he is currently in Iraq though. We have been talking for several weeks now and going to meet when he gets home at the first of the year. And, yes you can fall in love over the internet. I have spent more time just talking to my guy on here and on the phone...the connection is unreal! Feel free to email me...maggiegirl7@yahoo.com Would love to talk to you more! Lisa
 
Katie
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Wow, I know exactly how you feel...my baby's in the Marines and will only be with me for about another week. We are so in love and we've talked about marriage. But my problem is that he'll be stationed all over, and i'll be in college!!! E-mail me please!! We need to talk!!!!
Good luck honey
 
Brittany
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HMMM.. wondering if we are both with the same Marine? lol let me know
 
Alicia
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Hey Alison,
OMG I am in the same situation!! I met my Military Man over the internet!! We have talked everday for 3 months!! He lives about 2 hours from where I live. In 19 days, he will be on a plane to me, for his 2 weks R&R. Atleast I hope!! I haven't talked to him in over a week! He is in Afghanistan. I have decided to be faithful to him, because I think that we that sparks will fly when we meet!! I thought I was the only one in this situation, and its nice to know there are people you can talk to that are going through the same thing!! You can email me also, if u would like at blonde_dspcher@yahoo.com, its always nice to have a support group. I have also found several message boards that have answered many questions for me. My favorit is at ivillage.com. Look under love and sex. There will be a heading called dating a military man. They are like a family, and its so nice to be a part of that!! Hope to hear from you or anyone else that would like to talk! I have learned irs all about a support system!!
ALICIA
 
Alicia
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Hey Alison,
I am in the same situation!! I met my Military Man over the internet!! We have talked everday for 3 months!! He lives about 2 hours from where I live. In 19 days, he will be on a plane to me, for his 2 weeks R&R. Atleast I hope!! I haven't talked to him in over a week! He is in Afghanistan and alot has been going on. I thought I was the only one in this situation, and its nice to know there are people you can talk to that are going through the same thing!! You can email me also, if u would like at blonde_dspcher@yahoo.com, its always nice to have a support group. I have also found several message boards that have answered many questions for me. My favorite is at ivillage.com. There will be a heading called dating a military man. They are like a family, and its so nice to be a part of that!! Hope to hear from you or anyone else that would like to talk! I have learned irs all about a support system!!
ALICIA
 
Alicia
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Hey Alison,
I am in the same situation!! I met my Military Man over the internet!! We have talked everday for 3 months!! He lives about 2 hours from where I live. In 19 days, he will be on a plane to me, for his 2 weeks R&R. Atleast I hope!! I haven't talked to him in over a week! He is in Afghanistan and alot has been going on. I thought I was the only one in this situation, and its nice to know there are people you can talk to that are going through the same thing!! You can email me also, if u would like at blonde_dspcher@yahoo.com, its always nice to have a support group. ALICIA
 
Kristi
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im going through the same thing...me and my b/f have been together for 2 1/2 months and he is joining the army...we talk about getting married all the time when he comes back but thats many years away. I donno if I can wait that long, even if I do love him more than anything in the world...all ill be thinking about is him and worrying about him so I think were gonna end it and if theres still feelings when he comes back were gonna get together again...jus do waht u feel is right in your heart.
 
joanne
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alison

I was in the exact same situation. in fact he is from mississippi to. I love him so much. we dated for about 4 months while he was still in iraq before we meet in person. love at first site for me and him too. His name is Jack and i'll love him until the day I die. GO for it it's well worth it. I waited for 4 months to see him trust me if its meant to be it will last through this. good luck and god bless.

joanne
 
Angel
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Hey alison I am going through the same thing as you I met my soon to be husband on the interent when he was over in korea, it was the hardest thing just talking and sending pics back and forth I never thought I would find true love. Well I was wrong its been forever since I have seen him and when he came home omg the emotions that ran through my body was something I never thought would ever happen to me, when he got home and I picked him up at the airport he has asked me to marry him and I said yes, I belive strongly that if there is love between the both of you it will last forver dont ever give up hope!! if you need to talk here is my email address u can write me anytime....angel_n_u_4_ever@yahoo.com
 


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