hey there well I agree with tha person that commented you first its true a girl only does that when shes up to sumthin and you seem like a nice guy and you dont deserve that so if she asked you for sum time its casue she probably doesnt luv you a s much as you luv her or as much as you think she does k well good luck boi

It's me with an update... Now that I have come to terms with the way things are, Sara and I are best friends. Officially we are not togather, but I still took her out last weekend and we had a blast. I think that we just needed a break before our relationship got too physically serious. She is right, she's not ready for that. Of course, I didn't ask to do anything with her. It just felt like that's were things were heading. She kissed me goodnight saturday and I told her that she has a very special place in my heart. Even though we aren't "togather" I think we have a deeper relationship that we wouldn't have had in a boyfriend/girlfriend situation. And I think that one day she'll be ready for something more and hopefully I'll be around. Ya'll pray for me, and thinks for your advice!