B,
It is going to be tough being a young mother. I can say this because I am one at the age of sixteen. Now, just in case someone has not already told you, I will. Your life is no longer important. Now you have to care for your child. Forget "LOVE" and all that nonsense. You are about to bring a child into this world. What you want does not matter anymore. Not to be rude, but you had your chance to shine as a young lady, and you have abused the privilege, just as I did. Not to say that we did anything wrong. But we did not make the best choices. And for that reason you must try to make it work with the baby's father for the sake of the child. It will not be healthy for your son in the long run if his innocent life is left dangling in the middle of your love triangle. Wake up sweetheart. It called A Mother's Sacrafice!! Best of Luck!

Kay I kinda agree with you. I too had my son when I was 16 and your right now it's no longer about what you want. You have to make the best for your child. But here is where I don't agree, If your not happy then get out cuz when your child gets older he/she will know that your not happy and that could make your child unhappy. Trust me I know, I did the same thing for the so my son could have both parents, and my son was a holy terror, so I got out. Now he is 5 and we're doing a dam good job with just the 2 of us. He's still a holy terror but in a good way.

I have or had a similar situation.We were in love but distance seperated us. Loneliness caused us to make desicions that we didnt really want to. I am 16 and 4 months pregant.The one I thought I loved has a 4 month old daughter and when we met again not to long ago I told him I was pregant. We both seemed to still have feelings for each other. But even though he didnt want to stay with his daughters mother he had decided to do it for the sake of his child. I definitly agree with Kay. I have alot of issues with my baby's father but for my baby I will do anything because we cant think of ourselves anymore now we must think of our baby and what type of future we are goin to give that child. Only think of the joys that child will bring you and maybe in the long run you might fall in love with your baby's father.

I htink the story is so pathetic I mean I am 8 months pregnat so im gonna stay with him hahaha

Well I can relate, I am 14 years old and have 4 kids. I dont know who their dads are but one is black and I dont know how because didnt ever do any black men. Well that besides the point. I know how you feel becasue I have to pretend to love one so he'll give me child support, but what he dont know is that none of kids be his. Oh well, I hope all your problems get OK. By the way you sound a lot like that one Pop star person.

first off, I think that u should just pray about it and follow your heart. don't listen to anybody because noone in this world has ever or is going through the exact situation you are in.
but as to sarah- i'm sorry but there is no way in hell that u r 14 and have 4 kids and... that one of them is black but u don't know how because u have never slept with a black person. all you are trying to do is get attention and you are very immature and a major pathological lying b*tch.