listen closely or read over and over rather!! I am 40 yrs. old I have just left an abusive husband and I mean bad abusive. I want to hear from him but I don't. there is nothing wrong w/u u just have tobe srong and get on w/ur life. u r very young don't end up like me and divorced 4 times because u atract bad guys. I ALWAYS HAVE ATTRACTED BAD GUYS BECAUSE I DID NOT GET THE LOVE AT HOME FROM MOM NOR STILL DO...THAT I NEEDED SO I'D SETTLE FOR ANY LOVE I JUST WANTED TO FEEL LIKE I WAS LOVED!!!!!!!!!! well it took me since I was ur age til now to figure out that I will know love when it comes...just keep busy and I know that is hard cause I have depression on top of being depressed cause of bad boys when younger and now bad men...but make ur self read play games on net anything!!!! it is puppylove u r young I know what can happen cause my 20 yr old son thought he was in love at 16 and girl got preg. and they got married well she got preg. again...they divorced after 2 yrs. so please take my advice...be strong hang out w/friends forget guys for a little while and don't jump from 1 to another like me!!!! u'll be 40 and say what the h*ll was I thinking and doing? e-mail me a tami_is_free@yahoo.com see I even changed my e-mail address to help me think hey I am free can do what I want and don't have some man bossing, beating,etc. e-mail me we will talk I also have a 24 yr daughter that did same her senior yr._got preg. on purpose married divorced. I can help u and it will help me to be able to help u.

Ok, so you loved this guy and he broke your heart but now he wants you again, is that it? This is hard. Tell him as kindly as possible that you're already seeing someone and that he'll just have to wait. That's all you really can do. You wouldn't want to break your boyfriend's heart just cuz your long lost crush came back to town now, would you? But I guess if you....why don't you...........................................................................ok, now you've confused me...You don't love your current bf? Then why are you huys still going out? Forget what I said! Dump your bf but DO NOT GO OUT WITH THE *SSHOLE THAT HURT YOU EVER! Ok? That's my final answer.

hey, well I kind of no what ur going threw but i'm afraid my problem is WAY bigger. I think u shouldn't listen 2 ur heart cuz if being nice didnt get u anywhere then being mean gots 2. I see as if u get w/that guy u love u will only hurt ur self. its funny cuz I should take my own advice but hey its easier said than done. u have 2 move on w/ur life 2 if u get w/that guy "ur in love w/" u'll only hurt ur self & he'll think he can get away w/anything. & just cuz that guy hurt u shouldn't do what he did 2 u. u need 2 tell ur boyfriend how u feel about him i'm sure he'll understand if not then it wasnt meant 2 be. well hope ur problem gets better. (now i'll work on mine) dont worry ur not alone & u avoiding people doesnt make the sistuation any better & the problem wont go away it'll still be there unless u resolve it.

hey, whats up? I've been there before... When I was in 6th grade I had a boyfriend but... my crush went to my skool and it was hard because I wanted my crush more but I didn't want to break my boyfriends heart.. well it turns out my boyfriend just played me!!! See the thing was my my crush ( who was my best friend Nick) liked me but I didn't know.... well this yr in skool i'm gonna tell my crush how I feel my advice is... STAY SINGLE!!!

Maybe you should forget about boys... enjoy the ride of being single. Right now, I have a boyfriend but we really don't talk.. but anyways enough about my life... don't give up on boys... NEVER give up on yourself the most important thing... ifyou have yahoo email me @ hilary_duff1567@yahoo.com ( hilary duff's my idol) hehehe, well email me and I'd love to help you out!

I am goin out wit this guy and we have been goin out for almost a month now and I feel like I have to be with him all the time and he is like the only person that can put a smile on my face.. he is kinda being real short and stuff to me latly and I think he might break up with me I dont know what I would do without him what do I do???