well, just be careful, if he really loves you he'll wait 4 u. meanwhile the love that u have for him will always be there.love is precious and it lastes for a lifetime and not just a moment.

that is really good and you know I have the same prob but I am 15 and my man is 22 and I love him to death but you can really never know what could happen one day you will meet him and you will be the happiest gurl but for now just stay friends till you turn 18

If you truely love him, and he treats you with love and respect, then this could be it, the real thing. If you don't jump at this chance at true love, it may pass you by, and you'll realize to slowly to catch it.

This could be your soulmate so just be patient till you reach 18.

hiya, im 16 and my boyfriend is 23. we met pver the internet but fortunately he lives quite close to me. I think that you should stay talking to this guy for a while, you might not like hearing this but you are only 14 and might not be able to protect yourself that well from a man of his age. With him beig the older one, he could come and see you, before you both start seeing each other properly. you also didnt comment on what he had to say about this xxx thankyou xxxxxxx

Yeah I know I couldnt like protect myself but thats why he doenst have my personal info like phone number or address or school or anything. I can give him my life without using stuff like that.
and as far as him seeing me goes.. we treat it more like a joke... like every time I make a typo I put a quarter in a jar.. and when I turn 18 thats my money to go see him. I was telling him about me wanting to join the Airforce and he said that he would rather I lived with him. We dont really talk about that seriously as we both know that it wont happen for a while and we will deal with it as it comes

hi
I have a simalur situation
except the person I really like is bam margera the skateboarder with the show viva la bam im 14 and hes 25 but it doesnt stop me from believing that someday it will work cause we live so close and I will meet him im determined.
just beleive in yourself and everything will turn out right..
I may seem nuts but I love bam!
<3 bianca

Hi, I think you need to take a step back and think about what you are saying. You met a guy that is ten years older than you. And I know that you are probably not going to like what I am about to say. Have you ever thought abot why a 24 year old guy is doing trying to talk to you - a 14 year old girl? I have a little sister your age and if a MAN talked to my LITTLE sister like she was older i'd be a little more than upset. You may be mature for your age but your age is still 14. I'm 20 years old and i've been there and done that. You may have even have heard this before but you need to wait. You are still young - barely a teenager. I know you hate hearing that but your mind may be mature the fact is your boby hasn't reached that same level. not to mention life experiences (not intimate experiences) you have not had your life. Don't worry about a 24 yr old man. Worry about being 14. Life will fly by. It doesn't seem like it but it will. You're seem smart with school, continue that. School will help you so much more than a man will. You can be self efficent. Looking back on my life I wish I had somebody giving me this same advice. It took me a little longer to realize that I come first and men come second. Don't worry about him. And if he really does care he'll wait for you when you're ready and that doesn't have to be at 18 it can be when you graduate college. Don't rush that is my best advice. don't let better oppurtunites pass you by because you think what might and what could. Give yourself a future first. My fiance helps me yes we have been engaged for a year but we are not in a hurry. We still have our whole lives a head of us and so do you. Please understand that i'm not trying to ruin your fun or anything but take care of yourself first. But if you still feel that he is right for you, then I hope all goes well for you and him. I wish you luck in all that you do. - ~Samantha~

You do have a point him talking to me but at first we didnt know eachothers ages and we didnt really care. It wasnt until later that I knew how old he was and since we had already been talking there wasnt anything wrong with continuing.

I do intend to live my life though. I hope to have an Ässociates before I'm 18.. then I want to finish up and get my bachelors. I want to major in something to do with narcotics. I want to be the "handler" of a drug or bomb sniffing dog. (At like U.S Customs) Either that or Join the Airforce.

And I really appreciate the advice.. I only comment back to help make the "situation" more clear

hey im 14 too.. I feel bad cos im goin out with a guy hus 22 (omg) but the problem is I think I'm pregnant... ANYONE GOT SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT THAT ??:( yeh live ur life.. trust me.. my life is stuffed cos I saw a guy heaps older than me... dont do it 2 urself!

Yeah that is way different though.. he lives way far away.. so I dont even think I will see him until I am 18...

Hey girl u should deff be careful I met my boyfriend of 5 months now...he moved down to PA where I live and we could never be more happier...but some ppl our on the net to hurt you so just know what your getting into and trust your gut...if it doesn't feel right than it prob isn't.