Well I have also been in a similiar situation only thing I was friends with the guy (Stephen) along time before...well during the time I was going with this boy (Ryan) but I liked this boy Stephen so much and had for a long time but thought I was in love with Ryan...Me and Stephen use to kiss to and everything but I was still with Ryan so it was like Stephen was my other boy on da side and afterawhile me and him started spending alot of time together and I realized I was in love with him so I dumped Ryan after being in a relationship with him for over 9 mths...so I guess it somehow like urz...well I guess the best advice I can give you is to follow your heart...ask the girl where you stand to her...and let her know how you truely feel about her and if it was meant to be it will happen....Love can be a very complicated feeling for all of us you just have to give her time to come around and if she doesnt after a while maybe you should move on to someone else who you can find to love you back and be with only you...well good luck...