well if I was u go talk 2 him tell him the only reason why u went out with his best friend is bc u dident think that he liked u . tell him that he is the only person that u think about 24/7 and that u think u love him tell him ur really srry and ask him 4 forgiveness . well gurl good luck.

Girl, your story was following my first love situation so close it was scary. Of course from a male perspective anyway. Heres what happened to me. I loved this girl to death. She knew it. I used to talk to her all the time on the internet and at school. She actually liked me back at one time. I always helped her out when she needed it, and she told me I was really special. but she never let me date her. She always said I was so special, and if I was she would have given me a chance. I never got my chance. If this guy is mad at you because you dated his friend, then maybe he should look at his situation. he never told you directly he had feelings for you, so truly its his fault you didn't go out. If hes not mad at you and its just his friend running his mouth, then talk to him, make it right, make up, make out, and go get your guy girl! Good luck, and god bless

P.P.S. Love is something you never understand until you feel it happen. Only you know if its true. The only way to tell, is the first time you feel it, its like no other warm, fuzzy, happy, cuddly feeling you've ever felt before. :) Good luck to you

I kno how u feel im in a similar situation when all I want is to be in this guys arms and hm say I love u and neva wnt to leave u bt dnt wori im sure it will get beta

girl, I know how you feel. thats just love, you should talk to this guy instead of his friend. you shouldnt of gone out with his friend in the first place. well all I am saying is that you should talk to him, and if it doesnt work out, then move on.

Hey gurl...
I've been through a situation kinda like that, but instead of being you, I took the role of the guy that liked u. I kinda know how it feels, because I wuz friends with this guy, Josh. We always seemed to get stuck together in the same cl*sses. In about 8th grade, we were as close as best friends, but thats where we drew the line... ya see, I had pretty much liked him since 2nd grade, and I wuz all happy because we were such close friends. Ya see, the two big probems were that I'm a really jealous person, and he was a really really hot guy; as a matter of fact, he had been voted hottest guy in our yearbook 3 years in a row! By then, I was really over protective. Sometimes, when he wasn't sure if he'd wanted to go out with someone, he'd come to me and ask me if he should. I only wanted him to be happy, so I went in and I normally ended up being really good friends with his gf's just to make sure that they would make him happy. But there was a point 3 years ago, our Senior year in HS when he came to me and asked me to pick between 3 girls for him to go out with. I really just wanted to say "ME!", but I wasn't sure if I should. So I ran off in the halls, I was ballin' my eyes out... One of my other friends saw me. and they chased off after me, and tried to figure out what was wrong. I told her what had happened. After school Josh came to my house and asked me why I had ran off like that. I told him that it wasn't anything important. We kinda got into an argument because I wouldn't say.... I think the idea of me liking him just clicked, because he just blurted out, "You don't like me? Do you?", I was crying by then and I admited it. He hugged me, and I just sat there. He was like "Why didn't you tell me? Since when have you?" I told him that I had liked him since like 2nd grade, and he couldn't believe it. Then he admitted that he had liked me since 5th grade, and that once we became friends, he didn't want to ruin what we had, just like me, and that once he found out that other gurls liked him, he went out with them, and figured that he'd make me jealous eventually, and that he'd find out that I like him, and he's ask me out and we'd live "Happily ever after"....
Well thats kinda what happened...
We're planning our wedding, we're almost outta college, and we're as happy as can be...
Ya see, what I'm tryin ta say, is that if you confront him with honesty, some tears, and don't point any fingers at anyone, then maybe, you can get him back. But I just want you to know, maybe it is love, or maybe it's a crush, only you can decide, because crushes are called crushes because they hurt, and luv is pain and pain is luv; meaning that both hurt, and only you can decide. It can be anything you want. Just don't do anything you'll think you regret... Good Luck!

P.S.
It's ok if u went out with his friend, well at least its not your fault, if his friend knew that he liked you, and he went out with you, then it's his fault, because he knew that it would probably hurt his friend. And if I were you, I wouldn't talk to him, I would talk ta the guy that you like and not him...

hey gurl. I know what you are going through. something like that happened to me and now me and the guy are friends.i know he likes me, but I have a b/f who loves me. what you have to do is either fight for what you want or just erase him out of your mind, as if you never even met him. its a bad situation but us women are strong and if he really loved you he wouldnt have done that, u know what i'm sayin? but still, girl ya just gotta do what you think will make you happy and what feels like the right thing in the long run. Feel free to email me back and I will try to help you if you ever have another problem. I wish nothing but the best for you and I really hope you end up with him, NEVER GIVE UP ON THE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU SMILE

yeah I understand wat ur goin through cuz da same thing has happend 2 me...well I agree with every1 and jus tell him how u feel. if ur love was truly meant 4 him den everything will workout, if not it jus wasnt meant dats all cuz God has sum1 out there dat was meant 4 u and mayb its dis guy...only God knos da answer and jus pray dat everything will work 4 da best...iite I wish da best 4 u and goodluck.