I can tell you from expeience, my freind, that if its never going to be the same then dont try it again. there is always going to be a huge elephant that is going to be around and that will not let you live in peace. 2 weeks ago I broke up with the love of my life due to a huge argument. I knwo that our love is unlike any other, but the stuff that was said and done that day by us and her family will forever haunt us whether we are togther or seperate. the best advice a person can give you is start off new with someone else. im not saying to forget completely becasue there is an obvious part of you that died with that other person, but you deserve to make be happy and not be haunted by a tainted love. love is great and powerful but it isnt perfect.