well let`s start of vivian , I think you should forget about him and just be his friend [ people say it`s nice to have a gay men as a friend ] and if it turns out that you want to be MORE that a friend . . the I think it`s best for yu and him to just NOT see each other . . I haven`t been in this situation , but I know how you feel . . I mabe young but I know . . I knoe

Well first you got to understand that being gay is not wrong. You have to make sure if he is or not. Think about the way he acts, dress, so on. I have a friend who is gay and we are really close ones. Before he told me he was gay I had realized that already for the things above. My best friend fell in love with him. But he sat down with her and told her that he only liked her as a friend. Although I wanted them to be together cause I wanted my friends happiness. But things dont work that way. Have u tried asking him? in way that its not offensive to him. Have you seen with a girlfriend? You should ask yourself this. I'm glad my friend got over him. Hard but she did. Started dating some other guy who is very nice. Think and decide. Listen to your heart it will tell what to do.

hey vivianne we have talked before, and what I told you to do was to talk to him you'd feel a whole lot better.

hi viviane. ı dont thınk ur ın love wıth hım u just lıke or love the ıdea of lovın hım . gıve a chance to another guy and see wat happens . ım sure u wıll feel dıfferent. control ur emotıon by keping ur self busy . ıt wıll work

LOL!!!!! No seriously is he gay forreal?