well I think he defo, has feelings for u, I think u need to have a talk with him and let him know how u feel, u need to tell him that your in love with him and leave the ball in his court then, u deserve to be loved back and if he truely cares for u, he wont let this chance pass by without telling u he loves u to, if not, then I dont think u should be sleeping with him, I think that is alot to give to a guy who cant commit as a boyfriend with u, so please tell him how u feel and dont give your sexuality to him for nothing, u will regret and be hurt by it someday..good luck your friend shelly