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Pregnant and unsure who the dad is

Let me start by saying. I'm married, my husband recently told me he had been cheating on me and was no longer attracted to me so he moved out and left me here to raise our child together on my own. He hasn't been around at all. I started seeing someone new, and now I am pregnant.I'm wondering if theres any way to tell who the father is before the baby is born so that I don't have the wrong man there through the whole thing you know. Please help!!


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Melanie
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THERE IS A PATERNITY TEST THAT YOU CAN HAVE THEM TAKE it's a little costly but they take fluid out of the baby's sack....and test it with the alleged fathers.....i researched it when I was pregnant although I already knew who my daughter's father was.
 
Ashley
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Sorry but I can't help you there. There is no feeling in this, thing.
 
juliet
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Dear Val,

I can understand your concern, but if this new guy realy loves you, and if you love him, and if he's willing to stick around and be a father to your baby, then what does it matter if he's not the biological father. If you realy want what's best for you and your baby, then find a loving responsible man, and don't try to force either of them into being a father-figure for your child.
Also, what doctors never seem to tell you, is that there are fatal risks involved with Paternity tests. Several babies have died by accedental puncture with the needle they use to draw fluid.Your baby is a precous, beautiful gift, why risk loosing this tiny life. Its tiny heart beating, Its gorgous eyes, so much like your own, opening and closing.
Another thing. If this new guy doesn't realy love you, then say good-bye. Please don't make the all-to-common mistake of keeping someone around who is not good to you or your family because you are convinced that your children need a father. Itwould be better for them if you raised them alone.
Of course, if this guy is an angle who loves you and would gladly be a father to your children, then go for it. Everything realy depends on what he is like.
Once again, If he is willing to play the part and help you raise your baby with love and affection, then who cares weather he is of isn't the biological father?

You, your first child, and your baby are all beautiful, special people who deserve to be loved.
Please let me know if I was any help.
 
H0P3
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WELL U JUST GO HAVE 2 BRING DA NEW GUY U GET CHECK AND SEE IF HES DA DADDY BUT IF HES NOT THEN U KNOW WHO DA BABY DADDY IS....YOUR EX HUSBAND BUT IF DA NEW GUY REALLY REALLY LOVE U HE'LL STAY AND TAKE CARE OF DA BABY WITH U AND ONLY A REAL MAN CAN TAKE CARE OF SOMEBODY EALS CHILD AND GOOD LUCK
 


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